she's supposed to be my friend?and she's teasing me?

Question

my best friend is always telling me to get a fringe cut cuz ive got a very small forehead and i have baby hairs on the side of my forehead she says''get it cut cuz its not nice its wierd and its not straight ''and i got very offended and when i get offended i always stare into the mirror and think there's something wrong with me!everyone compliments me sayin that my forehead is small and nice and its not big!and my other friend said itsnice and she likes the way my hairline starts...my friend (the one who says bout my hairline)is not exactly perfect she has spots and i always compliment her about how pretty she is and when she compliments me she seems very uncomfortable and its almost like she doesn't wanna say it.what should i do??

Answer 1

aww well a friend should point out your flaws like that in a teasing way.
If she said "Oh this would look great if you did this" is a different story..
when she says that next time say "look at those spots".. no dont actually. you dont wantto stoop down to her level.
Tell her that you appriciate her advice in the hair issue, but you like it and thats all that matters, if you thought it was a big deal then you would of already changed it.
Keep your head up. Im sure you a beautiful girl!

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Answer 2

Well at your age almost everybody is tempted to worry about their looks and think something is wrong with them and try to get compliments.
Some people give compliments to get compliments.
Some people think, if they give a compliment it means they look worse than the person they are complimenting.
It's all very neurotic, but these feelings are normal.
I know you won't stop having these feelings, but try to keep them in perspective. It's just part of a developmental stage you're going through. Don't obsess over it.
Giving compliments is usually a good idea, so don't stop doing that. But don't worry about whether you get them.
This obsession with your looks will calm down as you get more mature.

Answer 3

I think at some point of you guys friendship she was jelous of you.. my friend was acting the same way and then she addmited (now that were older) that she was jelous of me and stuff so she didnt want to compliment so much becuause she thought i would start to act conceited and stuff... so she kept it to a minimul and she always use to try and pick something about me and say try to change it cus i looked good like how it was and she even admitted to that too. She says usually when people act like that there jelous. SO i bet you this friend of yours is jelous. I never cared to much about that though.. just let it go u know... dont really hang out with her that much if shes being like that... cus jelousy never was good for anyone.. even the person whos jelous of you.

Best of wishes kesha.

Answer 4

Hie Just. Well to me it is better for you to be just you and instead of you following what the other people say about, because when you were born god creates each and everyone in a very nice and beautiful and nice, so although your friend is keep complaing about your fore head or your hair, it is best that just be yourself instead of you following the others,when you know that you can be at your own so better be it, but when you compliment your friend, she should at least be thankfull to you by rather of her being un comfortable. Try this and hope it might help you................

ALL THE BEST....................

Answer 5

This girl isn't your friend. A friend wouldn't hurt another friend. Usually when a person is jealous of someone else they use teasing as a way to deflect their own flaws from being picked out. And those who tease are usually really insecure and jealous of others. I would tell her to stop the teasing or the friendship is over.