I am 33, male, and married with 2 kids. For the last 5 years or so I have basically had a very very limited sex drive. I love my wife, and I have a great life, I am just not interested in sex. If it was up to me I seriously wouldn't have sex at all, and when I do, it takes a while for me to get an erection. And it's not just my wife. I don't feel like I want to be with someone else, I don't look at porn, I don't masturbate, I really just have no sex drive. What the hell is wrong with me?
2007-06-22 05:17:13 · 11 answers · asked by headsplint 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Go to your Doctor and get a complete and thorough Physical. BE TOTALLY HONEST ABOUT THE PROBLEM.
This happened with my Husband and he refused to go for years and years and finally learned he had diabetes. Lose of sex drive is a big side effect. We have been married 40 years and this began almost immediately. It was miserable sticking it out.
So please for your marriages sake go check it out and find out what the problem is. It is slightly easier to deal with if it is a medical problem than if a husband is just not interested.
Good Luck.
2007-06-22 05:25:12 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm...that is a bit of an issue. How are you fit physically? I know it's hard for a family man in this day and age to workout, but you could try lifting weights at a gym or invest in some free weights at home. Just lift two times per week with a 2-3 day rest period in between. The after effect of building your muscles also includes a increase in your testosterone and sex drive.
2007-06-22 05:28:05 · answer #2 · answered by Daemon 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi there i can understand where you are coming from i have the same problem but i am female iam 35 have 4 kids from 14 years to 5 months i used to have a high sex drive since my last child 4 months ago i dont feel like sex at all even the thought of it makes me angry i would be happy to if i didnt have it at all and i am not interested in anyone else and do love my partner of 7 years and feel guilty of not providing for him and i have been asking myself what is wrong with me you are not alone and its not because of child birth or recently had a child like i said i had a very high sex drive even after other births we had sex 4 days after every birth except things are different now and i dont understand i probably havent given you much but just to let you know you are not alone
2007-06-22 05:33:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stress/Depression/Too Much Physical Movement & Working/Tiredness & Need For Sleep
2007-06-22 05:23:59 · answer #4 · answered by Richie R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with you. most guys and woman need to keep their sex life alive. Just try different things, bring in viabraters in to the sex life. also talk to your doctor and see if the male hormone is low in your blood. sorry hope this helps you.
2007-06-22 05:23:26 · answer #5 · answered by mickey15_ca 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to put some spunk into your sex life.try doing something different with your wife instead the same old routine.
2007-06-22 05:37:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm 19 years previous and that i'm attempting to lose my sexpersistent, I had this way of extreme one and that i think of I nonetheless would inspite of the fact that i'm hoping i do no longer reason intercourse has grow to be particularly of a vice for me. have faith me it rather is not the worst that should happen, examine a newspaper. concentration on greater useful issues.
2016-10-02 23:06:51 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sound's like one of 2 things to me.
Stress or Depression. Either could be very possible.
Maybe go and see you local doctor.
2007-06-22 05:20:56 · answer #8 · answered by gay boy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well that can be attributed sometimes to lack of testosterone in your blood. Have your bloodwork done and see if its on normal level. If it is then it is probably psychological - stress related, too much work, problems at work, etc. Remember it is all in your mind...
2007-06-22 05:22:03 · answer #9 · answered by Ronnie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you physically fit?
2007-06-22 05:21:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋