can you guys give me some advice?
2007-06-22 05:09:27 · 30 answers · asked by ,,,,,,, 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
and yes i'm a guy
2007-06-22 05:11:03 · update #1
Don't do if you're scared. Wait until you know you are ready.
2007-06-22 05:11:11 · answer #1 · answered by ♥lOvE♥ 4 · 11⤊ 1⤋
Don't do it unless you are sure that this is the person you want to loose your virginity to. Of course it is still going to be scary for you even if you do know. Figure out just how much you love your boyfriend. If you do not love him than i would not do it. But if you truly want to loose your virginity to him but are just scared. Just remember why you love him. Remember that you trust him. let him know that you are a little scared and if he loves you he will understand and try to help. Good luck
2007-06-22 05:15:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a perfect world you could always wait until you're "not scared" but then again, its something new and exciting. When anything is knew and exiciting its always a bit scary. Are you more scared that your partner doesn't really care for you? Or is it more of being scared of the unknown?
If it has to do with not knowing if your partner (regardless of gender/preference) has true feelings for you....never do it.
The act of sex alone does nothing to help make a relationship stronger.
2007-06-22 05:23:54 · answer #3 · answered by Phil M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Save yourself!
Self Respect Rules!
Intimacy only works in a Loving,Committed Relationship!
Don't be fooled!
Don't believe te Hype!
It's worth It!
Have a Great Weekend!
2007-06-22 05:15:18 · answer #4 · answered by J. Charles 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what I understand about 80%+ of gay guys do not actually have penetrative sex. You dont have to you know? Most gay's and hetrosexual people actually prefer oral sex, which is much less invasive. Best thing to do if you want to have a go at this is to have a couple of drinks (not too many!) and slowly start to experiment using hands and mouth and discuss wot feels gooooood. You'll be fine, dont worry.
2007-06-22 05:14:29 · answer #5 · answered by Gemma T 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YEP..................DOUBT potential NO ; ; ; ; ; ; ; (IN different words YOUR no longer waiting) yet THATS ok.ITS a good element relatively.CUZ THAS while U be responsive to SUMTHIN ISNT ultimate FOR U. AND IF THE BOY DOESNT understand THEN HE''L only could recover from IT.CUZ like the SONGE with the aid of LYFE JENNEINGS is going "think of earlier U permit IT flow" (ITS observed as S.E.X
2016-10-02 23:06:18 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait! It's not worth the stress. You probably won't be together down the road anyway and if you do end up together and he respects you and truly loves you he will wait till you are married/ready. Never do anything that makes you feel like you shouldn't be doing it.
2007-06-22 05:13:23 · answer #7 · answered by Mommy2aPrincess 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm hetero, but hell, loosing your virginity isn't something to do lightly no matter what some may say.. Don't be pressured, when you're ready you'll know.
2007-06-22 05:19:44 · answer #8 · answered by franken4110 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you so scared?! if you are unsure, then maybe it's not the right time for you! just really think it through before you make your decision! i will tell you one thing, don't allow others to push their opinion on you! also, you should talk to your bf about this, and let him know how you are feeling! i wish the best of luck in your decision whatever it maybe, but if you do decide to do it, please use protection!
2007-06-22 05:14:59 · answer #9 · answered by Modernday_Aphrodite 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
mm ya i have not given my virginity to a boyfriend eather... and id be really scaried to. in fact i really dont want some other dude humping my @$$ at all.......thats just gross. ok im gonna go vomit now.. bye
2007-06-22 05:15:05 · answer #10 · answered by Sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who is in control of your virginity? Your boyfriend? Get real.
Grow up.
2007-06-22 05:12:07 · answer #11 · answered by Keenu 4 · 5⤊ 1⤋