So we finally finished high school! I'm pretty sure I will never see him again, but he says he will call me one day to go out to eat or just to hang around. I fell in love with this boy. I want him, I covet him everyday, everyday I saw him at school! Soon I’ll be leaving for college and I know I'll find someone out there, but I fear it'll be hard getting over him!! This guy was perfect…perfect for me!! He has everything I’m looking for in a guy!!!! We never did anything and I’m going crazy for him!! My head keeps giving me false hope that he might just be gay, but I have this ugly feeling he is not!! I just found out he has some girlfriend! Does that truly mean anything? Does it? I never told him how I felt about him, never told him one of his friends was gay-me! I feared he would mock me, would ridicule me, would degrade me, would hurt me. But he already has hurt me by teasing me in so many ways!! His gay remarks and actions towards me, only me, make me believe he is gay. He touches me, tells me he wants to have sex with me, tells me to touch him, to hold his penis (but I have never held it, but have touched his butt) !! Would it be a bad idea to meet with him again in the future or during the summer? Would it? I don't know if he is gay...I sure do hope he is and pray he is! I'll I’m asking if for help. Help in forgetting about him, help in moving on, help in finding myself! Help me…please help me! Help me get over him! I’m lost and it’s fu**ing terrifying!
p.s. be serious with this matter
2007-06-22 04:47:00 · 5 answers · asked by Blah Blah Blah 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Since he told you that he wanted to have sex with you, and also asked you to hold his penis, i would say he is gay also. You need to call him and ask him if he wants to get together with you and do something, go from there, while you are with him, tell him that you care for him a lot and would like to see him more often and that you are very interested in being more than just a friend with him, and see how he reacts, what do you have to loose?! he has aleady showed an intrest in you, so go for it! If you do not tou will regret it! Call him and plan a day to go out and do something with him! Good luck, and have FUN!!!!
2007-06-27 17:50:48 · answer #1 · answered by ziggy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen - call him! CALL HIM! Go meet him before you both end up across country from one another and have a day that you will cherish forever. Say to him "Lets just have one final day of fun, no holes barred" and go for it!
2007-06-22 11:58:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you don't want to get over him at all.
If he says he wants to have sex with you, I think it's a sure sign that he feels the same way you do. Talk to him about it.
2007-06-22 11:54:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OHHH MY GOD!!! I HAVE THE SAME PROBLEM!! THIS IS SO HARD FOR ME BECAUSE I DONT WANT TO LOOSE HIM.. I DONT WANT TO GIVE HIM UP..IM 19 AND HE IS 26 I TALK TO HIM EVERYDAY.. I LOVE HIM WITH ALL MY HART.. I WOULD DO ANYTHING TO BE WITH HIM.. I JUST HOPE THAT SOMEDAY HE WILL BE WITH ME.. LOOK I KNOW ITS HARD FOR YOU.. BUT SOMETHING TELLS ME THAT YOU DONT WANT TO GET OVER HIM.. JUST TRY AND TRY HARD TO MAKE HIM LOVE YOU..
2007-06-22 12:11:21 · answer #4 · answered by I LOVE U J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why must you loose him?
2007-06-26 07:39:51 · answer #5 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋