My son's gf lies about everything. her age, color of her eyes (she wears contact lens) they've been togehter for 3 yrs, & he never met any of her family. She uses him like there's no tomorrow and he believes her. Last summer they broke up and got back toghether again and this time she won't sleep with him cause all of the sudden now she doesn't believe in sex before mrrg. Her eyes are brown and she wears green cont lens and when my son aks why her eyes are sometimes brown, she says that the color of her eyes are green but since guys bother her alot, she wears brown cont lens so they leave her alone, my son buys it. It looks like that my son is in denial and would like to still hang on or cling on to her don't know why. she lied about her age (5yrs older) my son is 24. pls tell what to do to make him see through her? i have to mention that he's so protective of her and even thinking of marrying her in the future. she goes on trips without him and give these excuses why she has to go
2007-06-22 02:22:52 · 5 answers · asked by Saba 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Love makes fools of us all, and some people use to it maneuver for power and success. All you can do is give the best advice you can, and hope they see the light eventually. I little lying is OK, make she has his best interests in mind, and tell her if she hurts him you will break her face.
2007-06-22 02:27:06 · answer #1 · answered by Steve C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am assuming by your screen name that you are his Mom. He won't let you think for him, so come at this from a different direction. Surely you have a freind, with a nice daughter...or maybe just the friend, that you can send on a mission to distract him. Kinda sneaky in ways, but may be your only hope of prying him loose from something the will harm him in the long run. His "little head" will take over and the big one will follow along in time.
2007-06-22 02:45:03 · answer #2 · answered by skullslammer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want your son to marry this woman then keep telling him how full of it she is. Your son is an adult and not a child but somehow you are still treating him like a child. One thing I do know from experience is that if you bite your lip and stay quiet about the girlfriend, the child will figure it out on his or her own. Unless there is abuse involved you should let your son make his mistakes and learn from them. You cannot live his life for him. Your support and love will be there for him if he falls.
2007-06-22 04:31:40 · answer #3 · answered by Janine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need too back out of your adult son's life and let him live it. It's no wonder he can't see through all her lies, you drowning him. He is more than likely staying with her to get back at you, probably because you don't like her. I am going to guess that your the over protective mother who spoiled her son growing up, making all the choices for him, paying all his bills, picking out his clothes, bought him a car.
My advise, back off for a little awhile about his girlfriend. Maybe you should be a better friend to your son, than an over bearing parent. Keep your friends close and your enemies closer.
2007-06-22 02:33:06 · answer #4 · answered by Just Life, Trying To Live It. 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him about this. Make sure you dont go on for a long time, just get to the point, and dont argue with him, just say, "please think about it", or something of that effect. That way, he wont argue with you, and wont be mad at you.
2007-06-22 02:28:00 · answer #5 · answered by babsa_90 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋