My bf had an old friend who contacted him after 3 years and invited him to her wedding. We went to the wedding and even though she was getting married that day I just felt a little insecure seeing how my boyfriend and she was together. It just felt like they had a moment and I just felt like they had something.
I asked him if they had ever had feelings for each other or hooked up and he kept on denying it. Finally he said she did have a bf and i had a gf nothing happened and we kissed once and that is it. Should I believe him?
2007-06-22 01:25:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2007-06-22 01:28:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
What difference does it make? The man was not married to you at the time. He has a right to his past, just as you do. Neither should he be required to give you a blow-by-blow description of his every encounter. Obviously, these two people had something in common. Why else would she invite him? Your insecurity is beyond reason. Drop this issue and get on with your marriage.
2007-06-22 08:44:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, dont fret on it. shes getting married!
He was not sure about telling you because obviously your the jealous type. You gotta let the jealousy go or you will lose him forever! could you imagine everytime a guy looks or talks to you, your BF asks what happened between you all? That gets old real quick
2007-06-22 08:29:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares. Even if they did more than kiss maybe even had sex. that was before you were in the picture. let it go people have past lives and they mature and grow up. (well most of us). Anyway they remain friends and she is getting married. Enough said.
2007-06-22 08:29:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you care? The girl is obviously married now and he hasn't had any contact in 3 yrs prior. Unless she's your new next door neighbor, I wouldn't give it another thought.
2007-06-22 08:29:11 · answer #5 · answered by dawnb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband and you went to to her wedding , even if they had a relationship in the past what does it matter now. Grow up, don't spoil your own marriage.
2007-06-22 08:44:48 · answer #6 · answered by Iqbal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't. You said you asked him and he denied it. Then he admitted to kissing once and that was it. BIG RED FLAG. I wouldn't believe anything else he says. If he couldn't admit to it right away, so sorry, too bad.
2007-06-22 08:30:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares...you were at her wedding remember. Let it go! don't start things because this is really something that does not have to be over analyzed.
2007-06-22 09:16:06 · answer #8 · answered by Sara M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's probably more to the story, but don't hassle it. He's just trying to protect your feelings. It was a long time ago. Don't worry about it.
2007-06-22 08:57:04 · answer #9 · answered by B B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he never done anything in the past to make you think that he wasn't worthy of your trust, then I do not think that you should be worrried about this incident.
2007-06-22 08:28:10 · answer #10 · answered by LuvMe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋