there are two girls in my class who dont like me (reasons unknown) and it is probably because they like ym friends but they dont like me so they're trying to push me out of the circle. anyway, one girl has only been there for one term and i have been at this school for 3 years. the other girl has also been here from the beginning but i dont know why she doesnt like me, she keeps trying to push me out of things. example:
we were taking photos today and then as soon as i was in the shot, she said it was a and photo and deleted it, when i wasnt in it, she would keep it. i dont think it is anything i have done that has pissed her off but just that our personality's dont click. whats really pissing me off is the fact that they're both trying to steal my friends but you know:
linking arms
joking with them
what makes it worse is my friends like them so i cant tell them just to ignore them otherwise they'll think i'm being mean. also the two girls i hate are friends!
i have tried being nice
2007-06-22 00:33:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
to them but they still reject me so i just gave up. plus, they are bitches. they be friends with who they want and ignore people they dont want to be. i just want to know what you would do in this situation and what i should do know? i know my friends wont ditch me but i just dont like what the girls i hate are doing.
what can i do?
2007-06-22 00:35:18 · update #1
right now, the new girl i have just completely ignored her and pushed HER out. i used to be very shy and let people take over but with her, i just butted straight in and looked her in the eye (i know this is really bitchy but its the only thing that would work because of her personality). i think she has backed down a little now.
i also deliberately showed photos of my friends and i having heaps of fun to the girl who has been there for 3 yrs. i watched her face just drop it was great. also, my friend wrote BFFL and she was so disappointed. haha
sorry if i'm being mean
2007-06-22 00:41:46 · update #2
well, they're not MY friends. they're my friend's friends so i really shouldnt have to say anything to them. in the modern world, confronting people just doesnt happen anymore, everything happens discretely, thats just how it is.
2007-06-22 01:07:30 · update #3
Bad situation! Not sure....sounds like you're a smart girl....theres lots of different ways to go.. you could destroy them if you are cunning enough, but the best thing to do is be yourself, be nice and kind to everyone, including them. Your friends will hopefully realise sooner or later that they are moles...Dont get too upset, school only lasts for a few more years. You have the rest of your life. Education is important and you only have this chance. Dont let 2 silly molles ruin your life. I promise they will be the ones that end up worse in the long run.... Dont change. If you want to cause drama..... write a note and shove it under the desk so someone finds it...rumours are really hard to shake...just dont get caught.
Oh my god Jody, I cant believe Jordan Thompson sscrewed That guy at McDonalds after just one hour. Apparently he had funny bumps on his thing too, do you think she should go to a clinic or something? Make sure people know who you are talking about when they find it......ha ha....
Thats a drastic measure.... just be yourself. Be nice. Karma is a reliable thing. I will do it for you.
2007-06-22 01:13:36 · answer #1 · answered by blerchus4incapet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know the school years are tough for I have been there and you may think a old guy may not know what the younger people feel but we have been through it. Friends can not be taken from you if they are true friends. Sometimes you have to endure a little pain for future profit, meaning continue as if nothing wrong and don't let them know they are hurting you. This with heap hot coals on their heads as the bible says.
2007-06-22 07:49:31 · answer #2 · answered by Coop 366 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask them exactly what their problem with you is. You all hang out together and it would be better if you all could get along.
If your friends are "true" friends, then no one will be able to "steal" them from you. You also might try going to them and ask what the problem is and what to do about these two girls who don't like you...hey, that is what friends are for.
I would not try getting even or anything as that might break up your friendships with others.
be cool...
2007-06-22 08:02:19 · answer #3 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them to act their age. Acting like a stupid high school idiot is irrelevant. Tell them the real world is a ***** and to get some balls and act mature. Hell, tell them off and be down with them. You deserve better people who will treat you with respect.
2007-06-22 07:39:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
get them out of the way, that's what i did. they tried to do that to me and i send them back to to where they came from (true story)
2007-06-22 07:39:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
try to be nice!bear with it!
2007-06-22 08:37:44 · answer #6 · answered by cutiegirlask 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋