i keep calling this guy and not saying anything(drop the phone almost everyday), i email him loads and text him even though he never replies help?
2007-06-22 00:21:38 · 12 answers · asked by princess tn blossom 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
of course it's an obsession; and having this compulsion to keep calling him, in spite of knowing he wants nothing to so with you, doesn't stop you! STOP! Move on,.... fast forward! There is nothing to be accomplished by making a nuisance of yourself. He will never like you in a way that you want him to. Find someone who cares, and give him space.
You need to get more self esteem, and to get it into your head, that you are worth more, and that you don't need to stoop to this level of harrassment. Just make your mind up, that he doesn't care about you, and move on.
I wish you good luck and happiness with someone nice, that you deserve.
2007-06-22 01:09:56 · answer #1 · answered by JoJoCieCie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give him some space. People do not like to feel trapped by something or someone. By sending him tons of emails or calling him and not answering puts a strange pressure on him, and an even more intense eagerness on your part. If he likes you, then he will reply. It might be too late, but next time, don't cling so much.
Ask yourself why you are behaving this way. Is it because of some unmet need in you? If so, then you can meet this need by yourself, or with the help of your family and friends. Only then will you be ready to date someone.
2007-06-22 07:26:17 · answer #2 · answered by double0bettie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STOP! If you text/email him and he does not respond, then he evidently does not want to talk to you.
When you call him and not say anything...did you ever think he might have caller ID and know it is you who is doing this?
Obsession is not good even if the other person does like you...it is a habit about yourself or a personality trait you need to work very hard to change or it will cause you loads of trouble when you get older.
Try talking to him in person and see how he feels about you.
Either way...stop hounding him to death...that will definitely push him away for sure and for certain.
You need to work on you and your obsession issues before you are ready for a real relationship with anyone.
be cool...
2007-06-22 08:05:40 · answer #3 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find another hobby.
The guy probably thinks your a nut case and more importantly HE'S NOT INTERESTED IN YOU.
Hang with friends, volunteeer at the local hospital, ride your bike, read a book or visit your grandma are some stuff you can do to forget about him.
2007-06-22 07:24:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why, what has he got that others don't? He has two arms, two legs, two eyes. So what causes you to be obsessed with him and more to the point you know it. That is not obsession, you want to possess him and he don't. Get a life.
2007-06-22 07:38:30 · answer #5 · answered by Coop 366 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no problem. tum ushe phone mat karo ,email mat karo bash ushke liye pray karo ki o jalna jaye. 15 day's you must do it dekho thhik time pe o tume phone kare ga aur 9 din ke andar phone na kare to tum mujhe email kar dena(mobile number)his. O>K Don;t worry main hoon na
2007-06-22 07:30:36 · answer #6 · answered by rahuldey1918 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
pooor guy.
if he doesnt reply, he doesnt give a ****
time to let it go and develop a life.
moron
2007-06-22 07:32:29 · answer #7 · answered by Josephinee 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why why why leave him alone find someone who calls you back and returns your mails
2007-06-22 07:40:17 · answer #8 · answered by kate robo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its really obsession.. try to forget him gurL!!
2007-06-22 07:39:37 · answer #9 · answered by sLs S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never ever give up, blossoms.
2007-06-22 07:25:05 · answer #10 · answered by hsarora47 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋