well i dont think i am good at anything........i am 15 years male.........when i was young i thought i am good at studies.......but look what when i grew up i found i am not good at studies.....i get average marks............then i thought i am good at sports........i started playing soccer............i went for coachings...........i found there are people who play far away better than me..............then i thought i must be good at basket ball then i found.........i never make score.........and i was out of the school team...........................then music came in my life.............i had a great voice........but as soon as i became mature.........i lost my voice.............it sucks now.
lets see i am not good at studies.........nor music and nor sports.....................
will ANYBODY GIVE ME SOME IDEA WHAT AM I GOOD AT.
i just want some ideas.................please dont post negative ideas.............i am already broken.......thank u
2007-06-20 23:38:36 · 17 answers · asked by Aryan 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You need to cut your self some slack since your only 15 years old, your so very young and you have lots of time. You have your whole life ahead of you to become terrific at any thing you want. You just need to strive to be the best at what ever you set your mind at doing. All the things that you have mentioned you can be good at any one of them, but you have to work hard at doing them. Don't give up on some thing if it's your dream, never short change your self. Maybe pick one thing that you really love and stick with it.
The thing that you can do is stick with the things that you love to do, the things that hold your interest. When you stay with things that your love/hold your interest it is easier to immerse your self in them. So that you will give it your all and rise above others. Remember that it isn't always about being the best at every thing that we do, so much as it is about enjoying what your are doing.
It's as they say, practice makes perfect. So that the more you do things the better you will become at them. Never give up on you since it is your dream to become good/the best at some thing. It will take you a lot of work to get to where you want to be, but in the end it will be worth all the work and the effort that you put into it. Also remember to have fun at what you are doing, because if it ever stops being fun for you then it isn't worth doing.
Most people who are great at what they do practice over and over again and then practice some more. They are working every day at what they do, so that they can be the best. They don't give up, they go the extra mile to be great at what ever they are going for.
That is what you need to do, you will make it if you want for your self. I have no doubt that if you work hard at some thing that you love that you will do great.
You can also try swimming/swim team/golfing/baseball. Remember one thing, your voice will settle down as you get a little older. So that you may not sound as bad as you think. It may just sound different to you, while it may sound just fine to others.
Get into some thing that you love, that holds your attention and I'm sure that you will do great. Just remember to have fun at what ever your doing, so that you will enjoy it as well. God bless you, I'm sure that what ever you choose for your self you will be good at it if your give your self a chance.
I think that you are being way too hard on your self, you need to give your self some time and a chance. Relax and give your self some time to find what you are good at. Some times it just takes a while to find that one thing that you feel good doing. If all eles just have fun at what ever you are doing and don't be so hard on your self.
2007-06-21 00:48:00 · answer #1 · answered by Cindy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I don't know you, but the first thing I noticed that you are good at is.....spelling! (Unless you tricked me & used the spell checker...lol) It may not seem like much, but being able to spell well is a very good thing.
You just need to relax. You are young & going through puberty. Many changes are taking place in your life & creating doubts. But they will pass.
My son went through the same type of thing when he was your age. The only difference was that he was very good at sports...baseball & soccer. So good at baseball that I'm sure he would have gotten a college scholarship, but it didn't matter, though. He still ended up signing himself out of high school when he turned 18 & doing nothing but sitting around for a few months. Then all of a sudden he goes back to school & gets a job & now he is on his way to being a very responsible adult! I think his maturity level just showed up later than most guys.
You seem to be a sincere & honest person. Those two things alone will get you far in life. Don't let anyone drag you down & don't focus on what you're good at. Just be happy!!! Good luck to you!
2007-06-21 03:53:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are good at being you. Nobody else in the universe can be you, so you must be the best you that you can be. You say you are not good at doing sports or music or studies, but do you enjoy doing them? If so, then just do them and enjoy yourself. Often times, the things we are best at are the things we love to do and remember that it takes practice to be good at something, so even though you may find others that are better at some things than you, if you practice you can improve.
2007-06-20 23:45:55 · answer #3 · answered by jingles 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you think you are not good at things because you want it to be perfect , look 'm gonna tell you something and i'm not just saying it for you to feel better or anything it's the truth i believe in and that is : NO ONE in this world can quite do what you do (it could be anything you imagine) because you are a different soul , but hey , i think your way of thinking is a bit low about yourself i mean you should have more confidence about things you do and about YOU , so now think of the people that in your mind are good at doing something? bring some names......so now i am sure whatever name you say i can say another name that does that special thing BETTER !!!so you see it's not about who can do things better , it's about the unique ways that people can do things and ALL the people i mean really ALL the people have something special in them and that makes them special at everything they do , so my advice for you is to just calm down and don't expect yourself to be SO DAMN PERFECT at EVERYTHING, and besides you might be vey good at doing something usual that you never thought of it before, if you want to find what it is, you have to look in your heart and see what you love the most , because the only thing that makes something special is the love and passion that has been put into that work , for example if you draw a painting with pieces of your heart it will blow people out by the work you've done , but remember , don't be attached to the result of your work don't try toooo hard for soemthing to be just PERFECT as there is no perfection in this world and on the other hand don't sit around and wait for your talent to shine up , just be happy with what you are and the gifts you have and try to find what you love the most and just do it , and be confident about yourself!
2007-06-20 23:55:33 · answer #4 · answered by Ann 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dude, They don't tell you this in school but your grades aren't the most important thing you're learning there. Sports probably won't pay your bills either. The most important thing I think you develop at school is your ability to just plain deal with people in the first place. You need to graduate. But in the end you "social engineering skills" are going to be what really takes you places, building contacts and advance your future.
2007-06-20 23:53:52 · answer #5 · answered by David B 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hi friend i am really happy that u hve tried so many an did not give up da....i must say u hve done a wonderrful job....u seem 2 b having lot of talents in u....that is really nice....everbudy wud nt hve tried al these but u did it....this shows u r not less than others....u said u wer nt gud at studies....tats all past 4get abt tat nw....nw u think camly what u r gud at...ur strengts and weekness....the positives that u hve is the tresure in u ...u develop on those positives...keep searching ....u wl soon b a tresurer....i bet da....the weekness that u hve make tem positives....u said abt ur singing da? uur voice went worse afr mature? hay dnt think that ok na....keep singing songs tat u lve 2 sing ....go 2 music classes that wl help u da.....al the best my friend.....u r the best
2007-06-20 23:50:53 · answer #6 · answered by sowmcy 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Try everything that's the only way to find out what you good at. And another thing in Oder for you to be good at anything you have to have love for it that will make it easier for you to keep on trying until you become very good at it. You still young and I'm sure your interests are still going to change a lot so try everything that comes up your mind.
Good Luck!
2007-06-20 23:47:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i thought so when i was young and i ended up better when i settled down and really got out there and looked at the things everyone could do and ended up doing something unique something none loved or could ever do be a nurse.god gave you two hands explore maybe there is something u overlooked talk to people more
2007-06-20 23:50:19 · answer #8 · answered by kit 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hey dude....i really luv u'r personality....u knw i'm 15.... a girl... i'll tell u....listen..i am a person who is in the school band... and i'm 4 in my class....i often go for sports and writing comps.....but when first i started on exhibiting my talents...i got everything negative....and it is true that it is really annoying....BUT... hope,work.....WORK HARD.that is the soln.
be confident....
hey u made it to the school team right that is really GRT.also
there are many people better than u......but there are many more people below u....k.......HOPE 4 THE BEST..... see u soon.......i am praying 4 u.........
2007-06-21 00:31:53 · answer #9 · answered by Saagarika 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don feel so negative. cheer up sweetie. just because someone is better in you at something, does not mean you have to give up. tell yourself, if he is good, you can be better. if you hear a voice within you saying, you cannot do it, then by all means, do it. and that voice will be silenced. do something you really like, you really enjoy and excel in it.show everyone you can do it. and i strongly believe you can. believe in yourself :)
if you can dream, you can do it!
good luck pal!
2007-06-20 23:49:31 · answer #10 · answered by apple-licious 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋