me and my bf have been going to for 2 months now and he seems like the right one for me to lose it to but were both virgins and im afraid if we do that its going to hurt. we havent really talked about it but we both kinda want to.
2007-06-20 21:08:13 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Are you ready to raise a baby on your own, without support from your friends or family? Are you on birth control?
If no, then you are too young. You need to be mature enough to handle the consequences of an active sex life.
Will you regret losing something you can never get back with someone you've been with for 2 months? If you only "kinda want to" then why don't you wait for the right time when you really want to.
2007-06-20 21:13:52 · answer #1 · answered by wyogiz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats really up to you, as long as you are old enough to do it. Everyone is different and I dont think its possible to judge. I say this because I knew a girl in high school, she had been going out with a guy for three years. She was 14 when I met her. She lost her virginity at the age of 11. I was shocked but when I think back, she had the mental maturity of a 24 year old. She was incredibly smart, a lovely person and one of the kindest, loyal friends i have ever had. She wasnt a bad influence or badly behaved. And was far wiser and sensible than anyone in that whole school. shes got about 3 degrees now and is happily married living in London... Only you can decide, but be aware, it doesnt always end up happily.
2007-06-21 05:08:45 · answer #2 · answered by blerchus4incapet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you did not give your age. Second question, two months is not long enough to know a person before having sex with them, especially if you are a virgin. Your first time should be saved for someone that you know everything about, someone that has been patient with you about waiting, and someone that you feel you truly love. Give it a bit more time before jumping into something that you may regret. You need to more than kinda want to. If there is any doubt whatsoever, do not do it because you will regret it. Once it is done, you can not take it back.
Yes, it will hurt, and you will probably bleed the first time.
2007-06-21 04:17:26 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can decide if he is the right one..but well, if you decide to have sex because you do really have feelings for him, then remember that you cannot turn the clock back. You didn't say how old you are, but I had sex at 14 (no I didn't love him it was just a holiday fling) with protection and have never regretted it.
Being a non-virgin doesn't stop a girl from living her life they way she wants, and pursuing her happiness. I have been with my b.f. for almost 2 years now, it's not a long time but I have never been happier. He doesn't care about my past too. If a guy cares too much about your past, then it wasn't meant to be.
2007-06-21 04:14:13 · answer #4 · answered by bronzedgal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you sound way too young for this , and if you both really care about each other, there should be no problem waiting. 2 months is not a long time. Both of you should wait it out and see if after 1 year you both still feel the same about each other.
2007-06-21 04:13:48 · answer #5 · answered by Me Thinks 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you are young. i would wait. you have only bee going out for two months and it will hurt, it ALWAYS does the first time. i'm sure he wants to because he is a male. make him wait and grow up a little first. if you are in high school or below just know that you are going to change your mind 1,000,000 times before finding what you are really looking for. good luck.
2007-06-21 04:57:32 · answer #6 · answered by rUkiddingMe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to wait and take your time, just because you;ve known this guy for 2 months doesnt mean you should give your body to him, really get to know a person, not everyone you date is going to be special enough to share yourself with, take your time and dont rush into anything, you dont want to have any regrets, and right now you are unsure about everything so wait untill you feel in your heart that everything matches up...
2007-06-24 00:30:20 · answer #7 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahaha .
ohmygosh that's hilarious ..
but srsly , if you're still in school
then hella no !
listen hon , not to be rudde or anything ..
but you know how boys are , they get you
& then leave you behind .. even if you think
he's the right one .. just wait & see how things
turn out first .. don't rush !
rushing only turns out bad ..
you could get some type of disease or
like get preganant !
so take things slowly ..
2months ?
hon , it takes more then that
to realize he's the one !
haha . so good luck & remember
sex doesn't equal love !
pee.ess. SAVE SEX FOR MARRIAGE ..
A GIFT WOMEN CAN GIVE THEIR HUSBAND'S
WHEN THEY GET MARRIED:]!
2007-06-21 05:04:20 · answer #8 · answered by iloveyou 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your not sure about it than your probably not ready.
2months may seem like a long time when you young, but when you get older you will realize its not that long.
Wait until you both know your ready and that you don't have reservations about it - when the time is right, you will know it - but when you have to ask if its right, than its not.
2007-06-21 04:14:01 · answer #9 · answered by brat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will hurt but if you start having sex it may be hard to stop so try not to have sex with half of the neighborhood.
2007-06-21 04:11:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋