should i let him go? or be patient???i dont know wat to do?

Question

My bf & i were 2gther for 13months and about a month ago we mutually decided to have a brk n brk up as it was hurting me being 2gther as he stopped loving me and i fell in love with him. He stopped lovin me because i didnt have the same feelings for him for most of the relationship and treated him not how he shouldve been treated and i only realised this about 2months ago i was blind sighted to this as i was battling my own personal battles which he helped with and i have now come out of it a better, happier and more loving person. However i fear its too little too late, he told me he wants to love me but doesnt and has no idea why.He tells me we have so much chemistry and theres such a special bond that we share that its irreplaceable. he thinks that it may b the stress of his law degree with exams this wk that he hasnt had time to think about us but he misses me. I dont know if i should just call it quits and let him go or b patient with him, i love him so much but im scared of hurt

Thanks guys :) i will wait it out and hopefully it pays off, i dont put pressure on him i know he needs to concentrate on law right now so i am being the best friend at the moment, its hard as i talk to him everyday on msn and i think that he needs a proper brk from me maybe?? but he doesn't seem to think so he wants to continue talking and when hes on holidays which is in 5 days wants to see me more but im scared the love he had for me wont return and ill just b even more hurt

Answer 1

wait it out for him.
he seems to still care for you.
he did wait for you for almost a year. now it's your turn to stick by him in his time of need, rather it's as a couple or as friends. sticking by him as friends is not a complete end, b/c after his stressful situation is over there's still the oppurtunity for a relationship

Answer 2

Why don't just give it another try? If you let him go you will never know if he was really the one for you, and you will probably live the rest of your life thinking "what if...", if you are back together and realize he is no the one for you, you will probably will have him out of your system...
There is nothing better than knowing by experience if someone or something is right for you. Good luck!

Answer 3

Take a deep breath and chill. Let him concentrate on law school--it's very demanding and the most important thing. Sound's like he needs your friendship, not a heavy relationship right now. You don't have to call it quits, but don't bug him. Let him call you.

Answer 4

Unfortunately, your relationship probably came about at the wrong time in your lives. It is probably best that you remain friends, but begin to date other people. If it was meant to be, it will happen eventually.