hi i had a question. I recently lost my virginity like a month ago to my boyfriend. We used a condom and he also pulled out. My period is due any day now but for some reason im freaking out that i could be pregnant...theres no way right? i think its just because i recently did it that im really nervous...i mean i even took 2 pregnany tests and they both came out negative im just really afraid my period won't come. we've been really careful and ive been getting cramps too but what if its implantation cramps? I also recently just got some birth contol pills...DESOGEN...are those good? im also very confused on when to take them and why does it matter? whats the difference if i take them the day of my period or the sunday after...im just confused. anyways thats it thanks
2007-06-20 18:39:37 · 9 answers · asked by Melissa 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Well,if you don't want children don't have sex period.That's the only way. My first child is a condom baby.My second and third children are pill babies with the pills being taken like they were supposed to be.And the fourth and final child we hope after 15 years we finally seemed to have stopped, is a post tubal litigation .So as far as a total hysterectomy which I haven't done that,I don't think any other method is totally 100% eeffective.I suggest don't have sex until you are in a committed relationship with someone who loves you and you are ready and willing to be a parent.
2007-06-20 18:53:42 · answer #1 · answered by Wow!guitar 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have sex, you can get pregnant. Period. My sister has gotten pregnant while on the pill and also while on the Depo shot (that one she got pregnant with triplets), and I have gotten pregnant while on the pill, and while I had an IUD. If you're not ready to be a mom, don't have sex!! If you're going to be irresponsible anyways, at least take the pills and continue to use condoms. It matters when you take them because of the hormones in them, they need to be taken at the right time of the month that your body is at... they also need to be taken at the same time every day, no matter what. Read the instructions, and talk some more to whomever got you the pills, you need to understand how your body even works before you have sex- Also, pregnancy tests are rarely accurate until you've missed your period, don't even bother taking them until you're already late. Even better, until you're a week late. But even then, some women don't respond to urine tests and will only test positive with blood tests....
2007-06-20 18:43:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
The reason why you are to take your birth control pills starting on the Sunday following your period is, so that it will regulate your body. I would say that the chances of you being pregnant are slim, with a condom, and 2 pregnacy tests coming up as negative.
2007-06-20 18:45:34 · answer #3 · answered by Renee B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, your stress can delay your period so try to relax! :]
Second, i understand you are nervous but its just because you are new to it, i really dont think you coculd be pregnant.
Third, if you are so nervous about this and are going to be stressed out, i dont think you were/are ready to have sex.
If youre going to take 2 tests every time you have sex you should probably wait a while longer.
As for the pills, it ususally tells you when to start them, its supposed to be while youre ON your period, mostly the first day is best.
2007-06-20 20:01:25 · answer #4 · answered by amy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you probably arent pregnant.. i was scared that i wouldn't get my period after i first had sex too...it just comes with the territory of becoming sexually active and always use a form of barrier contraception such as a condom or diaphram... i say this because even on birth control you can still get pregnant, i got pregnant at 17 and i was using birth control... as for the when to start the birth control read the pamphlets that come with it...
2007-06-20 18:47:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want to worry like this until you are really ready to have a baby? Is having premarital sex worth the stress you're going through. I doubt your pregnant but there's always a chance. FInd another way to say 'I love you'
2007-06-20 18:44:33 · answer #6 · answered by Dawn-Marie 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
take your pills and use the condoms, if you are gonna worry with this silliness just don't have sex..geesshhhh
2007-06-22 09:29:03 · answer #7 · answered by I'll tell it like it is 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know how you miss your period if you're stressed??
STOP stressing over this, and maybe you'll get
your period.
2007-06-20 18:48:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. unless he poked a hole in the condom.
2007-06-20 20:02:04 · answer #9 · answered by agello24 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋