my friend broke up with her boyfriend a couple weeks ago. shes already seeing someone new and moving in with him. is she making the right decision, or will this doom her new relationship?
2007-06-20 18:33:01 · 17 answers · asked by eselficken 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
my friend broke up with her boyfriend a couple weeks ago. shes already seeing someone new and moving in with him. is she making the right decision, or will this doom her new relationship?
oh yeah i forgot the guy just ended a relationship of 5 years, and hes still living with that girl.
2007-06-20 19:02:07 · update #1
Sometimes when people are in love or even recovering from a break up they don't do the smartest things. Talk to her about it, tell her your concerns and if she still does it there's not much you can do but be a true friend and be prepared w/ice cream when the **** hits the fan........
2007-06-20 18:39:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is a very bad choice although she may say she knows everything about this person, she maybe dead wrong. The man can change. Not only that if your friend was just getting back on her feet, by moving in with this person she just lost everything once again. She should give herself sometime. Maybe be single for a little bit she might like it. Good Luck.
2007-06-27 08:56:24 · answer #2 · answered by lcherriesr@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
moving in with any one especially as an adult is bad but even worse ,right after getting out of a recent relationship for a myriad of reasons ,not only because of unresolved issues but given the fact of diseases, the emotional pangs ,but the other question is what about the other partner why is he so egear to start a new relation even though very little may be known about the past.
2007-06-20 19:00:02 · answer #3 · answered by lildreamer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES, sounds like a rebound relationship that is headed for falling off the edge of a financial and emotional cliff. That said, since it is your friend, all you can really do is ask her if she is sure she is ready and let her make her own decisions. You can't fix her, even though you want to. All you can do is be there for her when she falls.
2007-06-20 18:46:00 · answer #4 · answered by mountain_laurel1183 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Big mistake; she has not given herself enough time to heal from the break-up. The guy she is moving in with is a rebound job and will most likely doom her relationship with him.
2007-06-25 19:54:37 · answer #5 · answered by Kizmetkitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No she's not making the right decision. You don't just move in with a guy in the 1800s Got to take the descion
2007-06-20 18:50:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT DEPENDS my husband and i moved in together the night we met and have been together for 14 years now and have 3 kids my friends love being around us because we go great together so i never look at anyones relationship and say that won't work because all of our friends and families thought we would not last and here we are 14 years later so it depends on them and if they go together hope that helps take care
2007-06-21 13:17:12 · answer #7 · answered by giggles47532000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is def. a bad choice on your friends part she does not know the guy well enough to already be moving in with him. I made that choice before and it was one of the worst decisions ive ever made in my life.
2007-06-20 19:19:15 · answer #8 · answered by lesliealways 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think moving in immediately like your friend just did could lead to another failed relationship. I personally think you should date someone for atleast 3 to 6 months first before deciding whether or not you know that person well enough to want to move in with them.
2007-06-20 18:46:41 · answer #9 · answered by HULK RULES!! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Living with someone after only two weeks is an awful decision. It really takes months j to really get to know a person. She doesn't even know if she really wants to date him.
2007-06-20 18:41:10 · answer #10 · answered by Blue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋