I met a girl who seemed pretty cool and she said I could add her to facebook (I'm 21 btw) and she seemed really excited to chat with me and stuff at the model show I went to, she lives out of state. Well, I see that she has an aim, so I thought I should chat with her, but first I'd asked her, so I did and she said she can't use her aim and that is not allowed. What I don't understand she, why would she lie to me, when she knows I can see her facebook?..She's the one that added me. I laso have friend that knows her, but she doesn't know I know-so should I ask her if it;s true?.. I feel like, if I find out she's lying I should confront her and tell her I know. I care because it hurt sot be deceived by someone who claims God is in their life and act all sweet and inocent.
2007-06-20 17:47:32 · 4 answers · asked by Cherryberry 1 in Computers & Internet ➔ Internet ➔ Facebook
Kacky -somehow everyone else figured this out and oyu can't?..Why is that?..It's not that hard. I am a female and I have a hard time trusting people, and when I finally meet someone who I think I can trust does this to me, how should I handle it?..-is all I'm trying to get to!GEEZ!
2007-06-20 18:02:10 · update #1
I am not trying to date her-EWW! She and I just have a lot in common an di think we can become the best of friends.
2007-06-20 18:03:30 · update #2
Maybe she has a aim and she knows u can see it, but shes really not allowed, that doesn't sound so hard to believe.
I have a aim and I only go on it when I'm alone cause I'm really not allowed. I guess I could do whatever I want, but the thing is I have to have my privacy. Maybe she has nosey people around her all the time. When I aim I don't want anyone reading my stuff except for the person who I'm aiming to.
2007-06-20 18:44:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're 21 I'll eat my hat. These are questions only a 14-year-old would ask. You need to be honest about your age so you can get an appropriate answer.
You're talking about being the best of friends, when you just met. Don't be inappropriate like that. You can't skip phases in a friendship or a relationship. She probably got weirded out.
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2007-06-21 00:55:01 · answer #2 · answered by Kacky 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's just protecting herself. Your relationship with her is still at the introductory stage so she might be cautious of people who wants to meet her.
Give her some time ;-) She'll accept you when she feels your friendship is true. I believe that you're a true friend. Worst case scenario, just chat with her by leaving messages on her wall ;-) The process is slow, but that's the least you can do to have this friendship going on.
Best wishes,
D
2007-06-21 00:58:27 · answer #3 · answered by Worried D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude why do you even care? Obviously she don't wanna chat with you on AIM. Maybe she doesn't want to be bothered by you. Or maybe she doesn't use her AIM all like that. You seem pretty obsessed with this girl. Are you sure you don't want her?
2007-06-21 00:58:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋