okk so my brother who is a year younger than me got caught drinking and smoking tonight(sophmore in hs) and since he got caught he decided to bring me into it and told my parents everything. like he said i drink all the time? which i dont only a couple times a month and he told them where my hiding spot in my room is and they took my beer=( but it was weird my parents laughed about it and hes in troube haha goddd i HATEEE my brother though i hatee him hes soo stupid and i cant believe he would do that what should i do i cant even look at him!!!!!!
2007-06-20 17:41:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Brothers and sisters love to bring each other down w/ them. Give it a couple years you'll forget all about it and maybe even laugh about it.
2007-06-20 17:44:13 · answer #1 · answered by Wendie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Uh, first of all, you shouldn't be doing what you're doing. You're lucky he screwed up bigger than you did--that's probably why you aren't in more trouble over it.
You want your parents to trust you, and hiding beer and drinking underage don't help that cause at all.
Don't hate your brother. You have a perfect right to be mightily upset with him and even to look for a way to "get even," but it's never a good thing to hate a family member, especially a sibling.
Remember, he's in trouble and you aren't.
2007-06-20 18:09:44 · answer #2 · answered by Warren D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be drinking anyways, your way to young to be doing that to your self. Its going to make you old before your time, get you fat, and make you do stupid things. Brothers where put on this earth to do things like this. Just be thank full that you got in trouble with your parents and they took away your beer before you got killed driving with one of your friends drunk. Find somthing more productive to do with your time, such as get good grades so you can go to a good college. Join a club at school, read a book.
2007-06-20 18:25:55 · answer #3 · answered by kila537 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, brothers are a pain, yada yada. Both of you need to stop blaming others for your problems. You know the drill about drugs and drinking, so I don't have to spell it out for you. So, instead of venting about him finding your beer, establish what you can do to repair trust with your parents.
2007-06-20 18:16:58 · answer #4 · answered by Quonx. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys, in all seriousness strike a deal...
if one of you rats on the other your only gonna get both of you in more crap. Cos when one of you gets in trboule ur parents just impose tougher rules on both of you.....I just found that out with my sister. We had a mutual agreement that we wouldnt rat until i crashed her friends party nd hooked wit her friend last weekend......(good night) shes ratted on me and now theres stricter rules on both of us...its good for both of u if u dont dob each other in...
good luck
2007-06-20 17:52:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't hate him, you hate his actions. Explain to him that what he did was wrong, and hurt your feelings. I'd try to stay away for a bit though. He was just trying to get your parents to understand.
2007-06-20 17:47:14 · answer #6 · answered by Pregnant with Baby #2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Know whats dumb? Posting about underage drinking on the internet.
2007-06-20 20:46:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drinking is bad for you, doesnt matter how much you do it. Affects everyone around you. You should stop.
2007-06-20 17:46:03 · answer #8 · answered by Infuego 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think thats unfair that he took you down with him
id tell your parents about something he done which was lie to them about how much you drink
2007-06-20 17:51:07 · answer #9 · answered by All Saints Rocks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wheres the question?
2007-06-20 18:49:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋