im going into high school this fall.
and i want to get the attention of some guys ive liked in the past.
but is dressing/acting slutty the way to go?
pleaseplease HELP!!!!!
2007-06-20 16:43:23 · 20 answers · asked by christineie weenie! 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
Some where inbetween both of those extremes would be best! A little skin isn't bad, but too much attracts the wrong attention. You will not attract quality guys if you wear slutty clothes, not to mention girls will hate you. Girls tend to be the most ruthless in high school....if you dress slutty, a lot of girls are gonna say stuff about you! Just be yourself, and dont dress for attention! Hope I helped. ~Peace~
2007-06-20 16:53:07 · answer #1 · answered by Justbeingme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh gosh no! Just try something new. Don't go for that "I work on the corner of 5th and Main" look, just try some bright new looks. Maybe try to eccentuate certain parts of your figure. Like if you're not quite busty up top, go with a baby-doll style shirt. Or maybe if you've got a small behind you could try some form-fitting pants, flap-open pockets add more dimension. And remember that if you dress slutty, that's what people will think you are. You don't want to lose friends or give guys the wrong impression. Just be otgoing and you'll probably get the guys.
2007-06-20 16:57:50 · answer #2 · answered by MusicMakesYouLoseControl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could go to high school dressed slutty and get the attention of guys, but it would be the wrong attention. More than likely they will care more about your body than anything else. They could care less about who you are as a person, but more about you physically, and will lead to one thing. So you could dress slutty, make guys think you are a slut, and become easy and start sleeping around and possibly get STD's and/or pregnant, or dress conservative and be taken seriously and treated like a human and not a piece of meat.
2007-06-20 16:54:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You don't have to act or dress like a slut to get a guys attention, unless he's an asshole and not worth your time.
You can dress a little more show-y, I wouldn't go too far with it though seeing as how you're only going into 9th grade. Have respect for yourself, don't act easy so boys will want you. Be yourself and you'll find the right guy for you.
2007-06-20 16:47:36 · answer #4 · answered by Good_Vibes 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No.
None of them is the way. I'd go for something inbetween. Something stylish, a little skin is the best to go.
By being conservative you just look plain and won't get attention towards yourself. By being slutty your just getting guys for all the reasons and shows you have no respect for yourself at all.
2007-06-20 16:49:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure, you will get their attention by dressing like a slut ofcourse. You will also make them lose any respect they would have had for you. You want a guy to notice you because you are just a cool person to be with, not just a piece of ***.
2007-06-20 16:50:15 · answer #6 · answered by wrastla98 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you think dressing slutty is the way to go, go ahead do it.
not only guys but everyone in your school will lose respect for you and wont take you seriously and guys like girls with respect for themselves! i mean hell, you sound slutty for even typing this question down. you're just a kid.
2007-06-21 12:31:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way! acting/dressing slutty only gets you the attention that you don't want.You will attract the wrong kind of people,If u have been crushing on these boys for awhile then you might know what kind of things they like and then try to get them to notice you that way.experience
2007-06-20 16:57:23 · answer #8 · answered by Nora Jones 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel you are about 14 - 15. dress with a mini, high heels show off your assets, wear a g string fromtime to time, turn heads with a low cut top but donot put out.
You will be a model, every mans dream but do not give yourself up easily....wait for the one you want. sluts do anything with a pulse...i think that is not you. oral or intimately
be a young lady you will love yourself later in lfie for this
2007-06-20 23:35:38 · answer #9 · answered by a_ladies_dream_18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could dress "slutty" , but do you want guys who only like girls who look like tramps ? they'll forever be chasing girls who look like strippers , who needs it ! ! ! too much aggrevation . perhaps you could opt for an eye-candy kind of look , flashy but never trashy . you know , ultra feminine with a little to the imagination . if you cannot wear it in front of your dad , it's too revealing . now go and have lots of fun being a girl. GOOD LUCK !!
2007-06-20 17:09:10 · answer #10 · answered by classysassynurse 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋