ok, this is my normal school day...
everyone calls me veggie because im vegetarian but i dont mind at all..
in my school, a lot of guys play soccer and they r my "friends"...when i go and play w/them its either one of the 2..
1.let me play but wont pass the ball
2.tell me "oh cmon get the f*** out of here!!"
i have a friend(girl) and that is not the same case with her. we r both the same height [5'1] she weighs 110 and i weigh 130...try 2 picture it...they guys r really nice to her to pass the ball, or just 2 laugh and have a good time. if i want that, i have 2 work while she she walks up and just stands there....
now picture it...she has a sorta mexican/phillipine/hawaiian look..i have more of a white/latin look/girl next door look...
i always feel ignored..
but those who r my "friends" there wont do do crap..dont talk to me at school but in love to chat , on the phone or talking just one on one...
~the only thing that gets me through is that the pain will go away
2007-06-20 15:37:58 · 6 answers · asked by lil_mickey2hot92 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i know its not much but every day??
im the type of gal who hates to give up no matter how meaningless...
and at home?? nothing.exactly nothing as if im not there..all i have here is my artwork....
what should i do??
i feel like im going crazy?
ive been like this for like 3 months...
i dont ethings which i dont get regret but i shouldnt have..
a.drank
b.didnt eat
c.[rather not mention]
i could go on but i rather not.
i have to say that this is just my less than average day....
nice,huh
so how should i feel??
2007-06-20 15:42:58 · update #1
want me to kick there asses?
jus punch um inda face or have me do it, it will be fun dont take that, im protective over my friends so no 1 f's with um, thell them there gunna git there asses kicked. u shud feel hatred an wont to beat um
2007-06-20 15:41:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm glad you realize the pain will go away....sooner than you can imagine right now, all of this will pass and you'll look back and wonder why you ever let it bother you in the first place. Of course that doesn't help very much in the here and now, but trust me, it is true. Your whole life is ahead of you, full of promise and dreams yet to be realized. Though you may be a very pretty young lady, NEVER feel like your worth is ever decided by something as simple as what you look like, nor is it decided by the opinions (good or bad) of any group. You decide what you are worth by the strength of your character and the depth of your vision.
2007-06-20 15:51:35 · answer #2 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can tell you how you should feel. However, from my viewpoint, and that is all it is...take it or leave it, I must ask you to evaluate why you would want to try so hard to be accepted by people who do not accept you?
These people are NOT your friends. Friends don't dis friends. Friends accept you. Care about your feelings. Include you in on their fun times. It sure sounds like these friends don't really like you.
So what to do...
What do you like doing...hobbies. Find new friends who have like interests. Seek counseling on why you have the need to remain in contact with people who are not really friendly and who abuse you with their words.
Your so-called friend with the nice figure...let me tell you. Don't be envious of it. 30 years from now the popular people are no longer the popular people in life. They are all used up. Trust me on this one. Your 30 year class reunion will reveal a truth. I too wasn't popular in school, however...30 years later I look better than most of the cheerleaders and those who were popular. The guys noticed me when I walked through the door. Also, the popular people really didn't succeed in life to the degree that I have...so walk away from them and get new friends. Ones that accept you today. Get on with your life and grow! Tomorrow you'll understand why I say this to you today. Work on the personal growth, you'll be glad you did! You go girl! Get a life!
2007-06-20 15:58:13 · answer #3 · answered by cadvadvocate 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds as if they are embarrassed of you...so in that case, your "friends" may not be your friends after it all. You may want to go look for a different group of friends or something...it's the end of the school year though, so hold it out 'till the summer and then take this advice and use it at the beginning of the next
2007-06-20 15:50:25 · answer #4 · answered by Valerie K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they r not your friends at all .... just because you weight a little more they r rude to you.... you should get new friends....you sound young so don't worry 'cause you will find people that will love you for who you are... "mas vale estar solo ke mal acompanado".... you will find your place... don't hurry and just focus on school ... and play soccer .... you will eventually grow and start to lose weight cause that is what happen to me .. just eat healthy!!( that took me a long time to understand .. it will do a lot for you)... do exercise... and just focus on your self .... and with time everything will start to get better ... belive me!!
2007-06-20 15:51:29 · answer #5 · answered by yudyzz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are asking the wrong question. You will feel bad about it no matter what other people tell you should feel. The real question you should ask yourself is.... What am I planning to do about it?
2007-06-20 16:08:14 · answer #6 · answered by Andrei A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋