i'm 17 i lost my virginity a couple of weeks ago and it hurt ALOT!! lol and then today i had sex again and it was more painful then the first time and i used lubrication..my question is when is the pain goin to go away and when will i start enjoying it..thanks
2007-06-20 14:52:37 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Relax! Maybe that will have things run smoother. Until then, walk with a strut. If it still hurts, then talk to your man, have him slow down. If slowing down doesn't help, see a OBGYN and see what is going on.
2007-06-21 07:58:11 · answer #1 · answered by ~Diz Iz Why Im Hot~ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
3 more times
2007-06-20 21:55:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same thing happened to me. It get's better soon. I'm not surprised the second time was worse than the first, but it was because you were probably still sore from the first time. I don't know, because you said it was a couple of weeks, but I went thru the exact same thing. For me, the pain receded the more used to it I got. My orgasm's, though, didn't really come until much later so I wish you better luck with that. :) Everybody is different. But you are okay.
2007-06-20 21:59:50 · answer #3 · answered by JP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yeah .. it'll definitely get better. You kinda break open a part of yourself internally that hasn't been touched when you have sex for the first time (hence the phrase "popping your cherry") so it has to heal a little before it'll start feeling good. Give it some time and GO EASY for the next few weeks so you can heal up. :-)
2007-06-20 21:56:58 · answer #4 · answered by Jackie O 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
make sure hes the One"
after just a few weeks it should start to hurt a lot less
just make sure and keep clean after wards as you dont want to get a infection down there -- yeast or any other
but u should see about getting married before u go any further with this
is he a lot bigger than you ? i mean like if you are a real lil girl and hes great big guy thats very normal to hurt a lot but if hes about the same size as you and doesn't have a huge member than its probably normal also and will just take time
a lot of guys just use girls and then dump them and then u will feel like such a loss at losing your virginity to a jerk so be careful and make sure hes really the guy u are suppose to be with for ever
2007-06-20 22:01:40 · answer #5 · answered by Medusa 4 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Take your time and relax. Being tense and nervous probably has a lot to do with the pain. Tell your partner the same. It is important that he take his time and help you to relax. I didn't find out until years later what a wonderful sport this can be. I didn't find that out until I found a patient, caring and resourceful partner. Now I can't wait to spend time together. He can curl my toes!!
2007-06-20 22:06:25 · answer #6 · answered by Andrea G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on your body. Some people it takes months. It also depends on the size of the guy. Since you are now having sex, I would suggest going to Gynecologist, they should also be able to tell you why it hurts so much -in case it is something serious.
2007-06-20 21:55:56 · answer #7 · answered by Danielle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is different so I really couldn't answer that question.
I hope you used protection because if you didn't it might be painful because of an (STD), sexually transmitted disease and yes you can get one the first time.
2007-06-20 22:00:22 · answer #8 · answered by Dv8s 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's still sore you need to give it a break. Make sure it is fully healed and each time you do it it will get strectched out more. If it never does then go see your girl dr.
2007-06-20 21:56:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
after the first couple times
2007-06-20 21:54:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋