I don't understand my best friend.....or my so called best friend! She is moving away to another state in the next few days, and tonight i'm taking her out along with another friend. And i know that i'm paying for her, because i always pay for her!!! But it really doesn't matter to me, the whole thing is that now that i look back....she seems to be very selfish, because she missed my last 3 birthdays, and every year...she makes sure i know it's her bday, and when she first said she was going away, i threw her a big going away party....but then she didn't end up going away?? So i don't know, i feel like she does take advantage of me....but we have been friends for so long....that i just don't know!!! Any input is desired!!!
2007-06-20 13:00:07 · 4 answers · asked by kitten05 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well try talking to her and asking her why does she do those things and tell her that it makes you feel uncomfortable and that you feel she is taking advantage of you. If she doesnt understand then maybe you guys shouldnt be friends. Its always good to talk just dont yell because nothing will never get solved in a blow-out argument. *I hope I helped*
:-D,
*MeBo*
2007-06-20 13:08:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok you want input? stop kissing *** to her man yeah since your so nice to her shes taking advantage of you you should not even be inviting her out if shes not paying let that girl pay for her own **** your just her little puppy and thats what im noticing no offense if she missed your b-day three times already what kind of friend is she not a very good one she probably doesnt even care for u what a crap *** friend
2007-06-20 20:06:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ditch her!! She doesnt seem like a friend at all. It seems like all she does is use you. You need a friend that is going to be there when you need her to be. A best friend is hard to find, but shouldnt be hard to keep. I have had my share of "best friends", people that I thought were my best friends, but when I turn around they were more like an acquaintance. Dont waste your time with her. Find someone that can has time for you!!
2007-06-20 20:13:58 · answer #3 · answered by saved1044 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you aren't friends
2007-06-20 20:06:49 · answer #4 · answered by Greg 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋