Ladies ....if your man was not making love to you~ What would you do? Would you assume he was getting it else?

Question

where?

BTW~ Mine is a PREACHER!

Answer 1

Have you ever watched the movie "Keeping Mum"? Do so!

Mine works way too bloody hard. Very tired during the week, but makes up for it weekends.

Preachers are human too... spice things up a little... and WATCH THE MOVIE... you will appreciate it!

Answer 2

First of all, how long have you been with him? Second, what kind of job does he have? And third, how old are both of you?
The reason I ask, men tend to fall away after some years of being with one woman, and as for his job; he might be tired if he is in construction or rises early every morning, and for the age; if your young and he's older that could be the problem, but if you two are similar to each others age then maybe you two are not experienced enough and he's seeing someone on the side. You are the only one who knows why your man is not giving you any satisfaction, my guess is he either is comfortable with you and doesn't want as much sex anymore or he's seeing someone on the side!

Answer 3

We don't know both sides of the story. But I don't think it is you in the slightest. He may be too tired with all the responsibilities that he has to devote that extra energy to put into the bedroom. I believe he is not cheating, but you are doing his ego any good by bashing him on the Internet. Turn it around what if he was saying the same about you on here? Wouldn't you think that was mean and cruel? It is....... either way it is done. Marriage is between 2 people that love and respect each other your marriage is private between him and you only.....the world does not need to be involved especially with what goes on in the bedroom, that is sacred between the married people. I hope you guy's get your problem worked out and for the better.

Answer 4

I guess so. I don't know. I haven't run into that problem yet. See, if we are not making love to me, it's out the door, you go.

Seriously, I wouldn't assume immediately but I think I would confront (not aggressively) my lover. Some people are not as much into sex as others. If let's say my lover and I used to make love very often and all of a sudden, boum. nada. I would wonder a bit, sure!!! but the best I think is to talk and not to assume and/or imagine. The mind can play so many tricks if one is not careful.

Answer 5

There could be several reasons. I would probably assume that he might be getting it somewhere else. That's not always the case tho. My ex husband was getting plenty from me and he still went out and screwed around. You need to have a serious talk or do some digging.

Answer 6

From a guys perspective if he completely loses interest in sex he either 1. no longer finds you arousing, 2. Is getting it somewhere else or 3. is turning gay...or it could be a combination of 1, 2 and 3...

Answer 7

Yes

Answer 8

i dont know what to think im having the same problem except i just had a baby 2 weeks ago and even b4 that we didnt have sex but maybe 5 times a month i havent made "love" in over a month :(

Answer 9

First of all, I would ask him. Maybe it is a health thing, stress, age, etc. My mind could think of thousands of things that are NOT really happening. The only way to know is to ask and be prepared for any answer.

Answer 10

probably, and at this point in a long term marriage it doesn't bother me much I'm lonely and i stay that way, the funny thing is I'm actually very attractive , not to gloat or bragg. but iguess people just get stuck in ruts.....