Do you think it would be a good idea to write my husband a note to tell Him I want to have more sex or say it?

Question

to his face?

Answer 1

Be the woman that you are tell him to his face. Let him deal with you on a man and woman level. Notes are for kids! Speak from your heart.

Answer 2

I can't see writing a note....he isn't writing
you a note saying that he doesn't want to
have sex....is he ???
Have a very nice dinner at home.... present
him with the question as to why. If he claims
a medical reason then set up a Doctors appoint-
ment.... if he claims to be too tired, again, a Doc.
appointment....too busy, insist on him hiring an
assistant... not interested, again, Doc. appoint-
ment ( could be depression )....... but, don't
accept the reason of "I don't know" !!

Answer 3

Yes, Ivan beat me to it. I wrote "Just Show Him!". Then when I sent this, I saw he had already wrote the same thing. That is the best answer. Don't write a note and don't talk about it, do it. Actions talk better than anything. :o)

Answer 4

All depends on how you feel he will react! My first idea would be to show him (as others have answered)- wear sexy outfits or no undies, keep just your towel on for a long time after a shower, touching and teasing are good hints too! If it doesn't work, just straight out ask him! Then he can tell you what his deal is.

Answer 5

I think you should write a note. In something like this, a little subtly is called for

Answer 6

No words should be necessary. Wait until he is getting ready for bed, then walk in wearing a smile, garter belt, and stockings. Do this a few times a week and he'll get the point.

Answer 7

Write him a note,then ask him in person.

Answer 8

Write a note, it's more cute and sweet.

Answer 9

The note is a good idea. Kinda romantic and sexy.

Answer 10

If he's already there with you, I would just whisper it in his ear. If he's not at home yet, you can leave him a little note and be ready waiting for him.