I am a 15 year old girl and I am Bisexual. I have feelings towards to of my best friends, but a stronger feeling towards one, Colleen. Colleen is also bi and has had sex, with a girl. But I just can't stop thinking about her and what it would be like to have sex with her. Should I tell her that I like her? What should I do?
She (and 4 other friends) knows that I am Bi.
2007-06-20 12:03:48 · 10 answers · asked by ? 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
The girl she had sex with wanted to be more than friends and she told Colleen that and now they are not friends. And I just really need her as a friend right now (i am dealing with alot of personal issues.
2007-06-20 12:17:13 · update #1
Well one, slow down just a little bit, first of all start with something like "I like you, and kinda want to be more than your friend" something like that once you get into a relationship you can think about all that but, if I were you I wouldn't sleep with her, at least not now your 15 I understand fanticising we all do it but you'll most likly feel guilty if you sleep with her now. Get a foundation, a relationship going. Good Luck ^.^ ~Mitsuki_chan~ <3
2007-06-20 12:11:26 · answer #1 · answered by Mitsuki_chan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It seems that you are afraid that if you tell her you like her you will lose her as a friend. You must ask yourself this: do you value your friendship or your well-being more? If you don't tell her you will suffer, but if you tell you might not suffer, but if you do it'll be twice as bad. I'd tell her, because if she really values you as a friend she won't drop you just because you tell her you really like her. You'll know if she's your real friend and worth it or not.
2007-06-20 14:02:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-06-20 12:42:18 · answer #3 · answered by Drew L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, and I say "girl." That is not normal for you to have those feelings. You are a girl! She is a girl! I pray that you will go and seek help from God. Or how about try reading your bible and see what it say about that lifestyle that you are about to enter in.
2007-06-20 12:27:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should be honest with her, because that always works better than lying.
2007-06-20 13:53:35 · answer #5 · answered by Kim's Mommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her you like her.but if only have sex when you are ready dont let her pressure you.good luck
2007-06-20 12:10:09 · answer #6 · answered by ....... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just have sex with her if she attracts you so much. things are easier when people are spontaneous and act as they feel
2007-06-20 12:27:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well i think that u should tell her.see what she says...
2007-06-20 12:10:37 · answer #8 · answered by honey.. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to young do you want to get us prosecuted
2007-06-20 14:03:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk with her
2007-06-25 03:41:36 · answer #10 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋