Urinating problem?

Question

Is it natural to not be able to urinate if you are in the same room as someone else, Why is this?

Answer 1

nerves honey, you are worried about the size of your "you know what !!!!!!"

Answer 2

Yes, I have that same problem. It is normal-I asked my doctor about it one time. I think in my case I feel under pressure to get it over with so the next person in que can use it.

I only use public restrooms when I absolutely have to. The reason for this is that since it takes me a while to get started, I don't want anyone thinking I'm just standing there to check them out (lol)!

I am a bit better now though. The thing that helped me, was driving from the east coast to the west coast-at some point along the way I realized it didn't matter and I relaxed.

Answer 3

Natural for many guys, shy bladder syndrome. More common than 100 yrs ago, when you just let fly outside. Probably even more common in the last 20 yrs due to the big "gay" fear, seeing another guy, or another guy seeing you. Can be overcome, I did, once was very shy, now have no prob at all. My method was to make myself use the urinals, then close my eyes and count to 20 with the goal of releasing the flow before 20, worked with practice, don't count at all now. Probably some other methods too. Also helps to really get more comfortable with your own body and your equip. I know guys who are still afraid to touch their own penises, that it will make them gay or something!

Answer 4

3. Eating in public places.

9. Writing while being observed.

11. Talking with people you don't know very well.

13. Urinating in a public bathroom.

19. Looking at people you don't know very well in the eyes.

Three of these items (3, 9, 13) appear to measure an extreme form of self-conscious shyness. The person is being observed, but the situation is barely classifiable as social; there is little in the way of an interaction going on. Interestingly, item 19 "looking at people you don't know very well in the eyes" shows an atypical pattern of factor loadings in factor analyses of the LSAS. The pattern of loadings of item 19 (in 3, 4, and 5-factor solutions) is most similar to the pattern of item 1 ("Telephone in public") and item 13 ("Urinating in a public bathroom"), both being scrutiny fears like eating or writing while being observed. Item analysis suggests that the typological source of variance in the LSAS may be due to a set of items measuring scrutiny fears, a construct that is not well-covered by the Cheek and Buss shyness scale.
http://www.mcmaster.ca/inabis98/ameringen/oakman0804/five.html

Answer 5

A lot of men have a problem with urinating when there are other men around. Some prefer to use a stall in private. I guess it was how you were brought up, or you are self conscious about another man seeing your penis. Either way I would not worry about it too much.

Answer 6

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Answer 7

Happens all the time with me, i find it quite funny now, especially at airports, me and my sun both desperate to pee before we got on the plane decide to go to the loo,both of us stood there unzipped and .....nothing,we turned to each other and laughed. soon as we got outside the loo, yes youve guessed, busting again!! even worse is when i need to lay a cable,ive no chance if anyone is around!! still life goes on mate, your not alone....

Answer 8

It happened to me at the first time I desperately had to use a public lavatory. Caused by UNEASINESS that makes all the muscles tension.

Answer 9

Yes, it is natural. I remember learning about this in psychology...don't worry, you are normal! You can learn more about it here:
http://www.paruresis.org/about_avoidant_paruresis.htm

Answer 10

lookup shy bladder syndrome or got to the doctor about it.

Answer 11

it is called a bashful bladder....with time and practice ... a long time...you may get over it