my bf friend threat to hit me because i said in angry tone stay out of my car. the reason for me saying that he is always up to no good and steals from stores and then jumps into my car. i need to know how i can protect myself. please help.
2007-06-20 09:11:16 · 8 answers · asked by liseta_b 2 in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
the guy who threats me is my boyfriend's friend so i dont talk to him unless i have if i am looking for my boy friend.
2007-06-20 09:19:12 · update #1
Cut all ties and file a restraining order. This is a domestic issue (Its also verbal abuse and intimidation) and most police agencies take this very serious these days. However, if you are not willing to cut ties and leave this person this behavior will only escalate to domestic violence and you and your baby will continue to pay the price. In addition, you could find yourelf in serious trouble for aiding and abetting a known criminal since you obviously knows he steals and uses your vehicle as a getaway car.
You should also educate yourself on domestic violence. What you have described is just the beginning.
Abuse is a pattern of coercive control that one person exercises over another. Battering is a behavior that physically harms, arouses fear, prevents a partner from doing what they wish or forces them to behave in ways they do not want.
Battering includes the use of physical and sexual violence, threats and intimidation, emotional abuse and economic deprivation.
http://www.ndvh.org/
The National Domestic Hotline can help you. 1-800-799-SAFE (7233)
2007-06-20 09:14:03 · answer #1 · answered by Melli 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have nothing legal to worry about. I am assuming that you are a citizen and he is not. Any court will see that a foreign-born man who threatens to take a baby out of the country under these circumstances. Contact an immigration lawyer about your rights, if only to get it down on paper that this situation is going on. If your husband tries anything, you have already provided documentation. If you have no money, called Legal Aid. I did that in the past and got a lawyer for free. When the baby is born, he will have to get a passport for him or her. If there is information in the system that he is trying to commit domestic kidnapping, the passport can be stopped. I would suggest that you make plans now to leave your husband. A man who wants you to go to hell and steal your child may not be far from doing you serious harm. If you have family members you can stay with, go there. If not, contact a local women's shelter or similar organization. Your local telephone book should have a government office listing for one. You and your baby will have a wonderful life!
2016-04-01 08:18:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the police and file for a restraining order. However, do yourself and your local law enforcement a favor and stay away from this guy. Once you file, don't go around where he will be. You need to protect your baby and staying clear of this guy will help. So often girls file on some guy who really is threatening them and then proceed to hang out with him a week later. File, and steer clear of the loser.
2007-06-20 09:18:02 · answer #3 · answered by J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously....stay away from him...
From there, if he continues to come around and threaten you, contact the police...file a restraining order...if he's at your house, have him advised of criminal trespassing...
If he's the father, you won't ever be able to have him completely out of your life...but that's what happens when you aren't careful about who you have children with...
2007-06-20 09:19:11 · answer #4 · answered by TriscuitQueen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to go to the domestic relations court or the prosecuting attorney/district attorney in your city/county and have a protective order taken out against him
2007-06-20 09:16:33 · answer #5 · answered by ALASPADA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't get any better. Stop wasting your time with a loser. As the person above said, cut all ties and get a restraining order.
Life's too long to waste it on this guy.
2007-06-20 09:16:26 · answer #6 · answered by open4one 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stay away from him and if contiues to threaten you call the police and/or get a restraining order.
2007-06-20 09:15:18 · answer #7 · answered by mnwomen 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
stay away from him.please do not put yourself in danger!GOOD LUCK
2007-06-20 09:21:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋