i had my periods last month n this time they are about 10 days late me n my boyfriend haven't even touched each other this month but we did in april but i was down in may. i know that nothing can be wrong but i'm still scared to go to a gyanea. can u plz give me a reassuring reality check? plz i need a satisfying ans. considering the fact that i do get irregular at times due to weakness
he has NEVER come inside me we just have foreplay...
is it just stress...
2007-06-20 08:17:01 · 26 answers · asked by chinky 3 in Health ➔ Women's Health
i don't want to go to a doc i'm scared can't u tell me something re assuring like i'm not pregnant since he never entered me i'm 20 by the way
2007-06-20 08:22:42 · update #1
Relax, YOUR OK & Your worth a diamond ring
and the good Lord has given you a warning sign-
this is what helped me when God's love got my attention=I suggest praying through what I give to you-and when a wrong thought comes to your mind-this works for me-I pray inside "The blood of Jesus rebuke/take away that thought." and it goes and then I put in whatever is good honest and pure to think about =Philippians 4:4-20 (especially verse 8) prayer, peace, power & plenty more.
this is what helped me to get victory over violence even in my thought life=joy -inspite of things-it is based on Jesus promise in his love for each of us
"I love you, and ask you to repent from your sins, even one lie, Behold I stand at your heart door and knock, if you hear my word and ask me in, I will come in and become your friend." Revelation 3:19&20
so I prayed "Jesus I am sorry for my sins, come into my heart and help me, be my friend, amen."
it gave me a new begining in life and if I get off tract-I ask Jesus to forgive me for letting him down and to restore the joy of my salvation so I can help others to find the way too. Psalm 51
praying for you and help to you princess, David
2007-06-20 08:35:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
1. You aren't pregnant, but since you are so stressed, pick up a pregnancy test and take it so you reassure your mind.
2. Being late is normal for a lot of people. It can be caused by many things, including stress, and it does not mean you have to be worried anything is wrong with you.
3. If and when you decide you are going to visit the GYN, pick an all women's group and let them know this is your first exam and you are nervous about it. They will be very kind and gentle and you can ask for an assistant to come in the room and be with you and hold your hand. Usually the people are super nice when they know it is your first time there, they will tell you everything they are doing and how it will only take a minute for this or that, and before you know it, you are done. I was really afraid at your age too, but once I had it done I knew it was not a big deal. I prefer a woman doctor too because they are usually more understanding of everything you are going through. Best to you, sweetie.
2007-06-20 08:35:04 · answer #2 · answered by Annie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You didn't specify what you are worried about but i'm guessing that since your period is late, you're talking about pregnancy...
you said you haven't had sex yet right? if so, then, chances of you getting pregnant are extremely low! If you have and you used a condom, and he pulled out, they are extremely low. Regardless, many many things can delay your period. Stress is a big one! change in diet and exercise can be as well. If you're that worried, take a pregnancy test. Get your boyfriend to take you..
If you are having sex, or there is a different issue, you do need to go to the doctor. It's not as bad as you think. If you don't want to tell your parents, you can use the excuse that your periods are very irregular and you get really really bad cramps. Birth control helps with that. And if you tell the Dr. you're having sex, most Dr. i know of are prohibited by law from telling your parents. You can always ask them tho. hope that helps!
2007-06-20 08:35:30 · answer #3 · answered by mor_chaos 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Even if he doesn't ejaculate inside of you you can still get pregnant. Semen is secreted during foreplay and during intercouse before he actually ejaculates. If you're late and don't want to go to the gyn buy an over the counter test. If it's positive then go see your doctor. Not trying to sound like a mother but if you're having sex you should see a gyn. Ignoring the fact that you're late or hoping that it's stress won't solve anything...you need answers...the sooner the better.
2007-06-20 08:26:22 · answer #4 · answered by Pebbles61 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To reassure yourself of being not pregnant (which I am assuming you are scared about) then go and buy a home pregnancy test to rest your mind at ease.
Depending on your age, your period may still be irregular. But stress certainly does add to the lateness of your period. Also, to reassure yourself in the future, think about going on the birth control pill even if he does not come inside you, there is still the possibility of pregnancy (traces of semen).
Hope that helps!
2007-06-20 08:25:50 · answer #5 · answered by Xeneelk 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're freaking out. Stress can cause delay in your period as well as many other things. Not every one has a regular 28 day cycle. Most women start off irregular. If your sure you can't be pregnant then stop worrying. But if you think you may be pregnant go get a home test and find out for sure.
But relax worrying won't do anything but cause more stress.
2007-06-20 08:22:36 · answer #6 · answered by Rin 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Could be stress. It doesn't really matter if your boyfriend didn't come inside you, if he leaks just outside you there could be some hardy sperm there and make it inside. If you're concerned about pregnancy, do a home test. Don't go cheap here, or go to a crisis pregnancy clinic. They have good tests kits and can help you for free. How long have you been getting your period? First several months are a bit unpredictable.
2007-06-20 08:24:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
The only reassurance you can get is from the doctor. It could be something wrong that has nothing to do with being pregnant, obviously. So you need to go. That is what doctors are for.
2007-06-20 08:28:34 · answer #8 · answered by Lemonada 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 04:09:48 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some ladies do have these irregular periods. You have nothing to fear, go to the doctor and they can help you get this problem straighten out. Sometime stress can cause your period to be late or early.
2007-06-20 08:25:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just because your boyfriend doesn't "***" in you doesn't mean you can't get pregnant. I would go to your gyno and ask them to do a pregnancy test. If that is negative, I would ask about why your periods are so irregular and why you are so weak.
2007-06-20 08:22:35 · answer #11 · answered by Nichole 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋