Most of the time we have pretty good intimate relations (if you know what I mean), but the last time we had an encounter, he flopped. I took it personal. I am not tooting my own horn, but I've been told I am a looker. So, what reasons do you think this flop happened?
2007-06-20 07:52:54 · 16 answers · asked by Ida T 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There are 2 types of men in bed. Those that have (as you put it) "flopped" at least once and those that have lied about it. Don't take it personal. Looker or not. Sex is more mental than anything. Stress at work, bills on his mind, it could be any number of things. When that happens to me, just lieing beside me and a little hand stroke to relax and take my mind off the pressure of performing seems to work well. I'm sure he's satisfied and its a temporary thing. But....are there other health issues involved? High blood pressure, diabetes. Bodies change.
2007-06-20 08:20:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This all depends actually on what you mean by "flop". However if its what I think that you mean, then dont sweat it. It is most common for this to happen once in a while for every male. Just as women will be wetter sometimes than others. Dont take it personally.
2007-06-20 14:59:47 · answer #2 · answered by pappysgotitgoinon 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not uncommon for men, old and young. Though, is more common with older men. Lots of potential reasons, but non really relate to you.
Too much alcohol
Smoking (marijuana/tobacco)
Frequency of sex (the more sex, sometimes men loose the ability to get into it with the same person) Change things up!
Prescription Drugs (very common)
Overly stressed in life
Could go on and on, but it definitely is not you.
2007-06-20 15:03:11 · answer #3 · answered by GrantS 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why take it personally he may have stress that you haven't spoken about and tired there are lots of reasons for this...
If you are as you say a looker give him a massage and try again......
2007-06-20 14:56:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It happens. It is just the nature of the beast. Normally my husband is always ready to go, no questions asked, nor foreplay needed. But on occasion, once or twice a year, it is a no go. We call those times, "fussy".
My husband: "He's being fussy. I'm sorry."
Me: "That's okay, we can do other things. How do you feel about this?"
My husband: "Oh, I like that!"
2007-06-20 14:59:48 · answer #5 · answered by Poppet 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because flops happen sometimes
2007-06-20 15:12:04 · answer #6 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think of it like this: HE flopped. So it's likely his problem - either he's stressed out, or he's having an affair and feels guilty, or his feelings for you are changing. Whatever it is, it's NOT your fault.
2007-06-20 15:00:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He could have been tired or stressed. Don't take one instance personal. If it happens all the time it could even be medical and not have anything to do with you.
2007-06-20 14:58:28 · answer #8 · answered by YUMMY1 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't sweat it honey. There are many reasons for that...stress,alcohol,medication,change in diet and sometimes for no reason at all. It happens to the best of us!!!!
2007-06-20 14:58:59 · answer #9 · answered by thefireman 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
flopped?
Rarely have that problem, alchohol is about all that ever does that to me. Even then it isn't so much a flop as it is unable to complete ... and thats much worse.
Don't sweat it...get him next time.
2007-06-20 15:02:13 · answer #10 · answered by scott_v1963 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋