gifts and money? Would you?
I have. ;)
2007-06-20 07:34:39 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
1. Yes
2. Never would
But hey....more power to ya hun.
2007-06-20 07:36:46 · answer #1 · answered by SeXyMaMa 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yes. You play with people's feelings like that. Never a good thing. However...I have to admit, I have at least gotten guys' feelings involved with me and I was using them. Not for gifts/money. It was just when I was around people that had a significant other, sometimes I got this urge to have the same thing, so I'd play with guys' feelings and flirt with them just for a few minutes of personal indulgence then I left and went to talk to my friends and avoided them later on. I finally stopped, or at least slowed down. I realized guys really do have feelings and I shouldn't play with them. So, once again, I don't think you should flirt/date anybody unless there's a mutual connection. You shouldn't use them.
2007-06-20 07:40:15 · answer #2 · answered by insidious_22 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it was a waste of time for their gifts and money, because u did not learn anything from that person that u dated.
Materials are transiency, they only last for a short period of time. Tomorrow it's a new day, so dont make the same mistakes.
Hey, by the way i like your pic, it's very, very cute. :)
2007-06-20 21:59:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Completely wrong. This is a perfect example of how people have mistreated the concept of dating and totallly gave it a worse meaning. Dating is like a journey to find your true love. Now all people use it for is gifts, money, and other things I won't name.
2007-06-20 07:37:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If both are aware and are happy with that set up then i don't see it being a problem. Its when one partner is being used and the other doesn't know when i think it's wrong. Personally, i would rather be in a relationship based on love rather than material objects.
2007-06-20 07:41:47 · answer #5 · answered by Widgi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, when I wasn't looking for a serious relationship, I would let guys take me out to dinner... when I wasn't in the slightest bit interested in them. But hey free food, movies, sometimes flowers which brighten up my apartment. It worked out for me. =)
Of course, they were all cranky when I got a real boyfriend, yes someone I was interested in. I was like; I never implied that I liked you, I never hugged you, never kissed you... weren't you wondering what was up.
I also nag my guy friends, who clearly know they're just friends, for food and stuff... haha. So... I was naive, I thought they were being good friend and offering to pay for me. 0=)
I am a bad person.
2007-06-20 07:39:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if i was attracted to the guy i would. I have my friend who i've known for like 4 years who just wants to like date me or take me out. I know he'll spoil me , give me anything i want. He bought this girl he hooked up once a coach purse for hre b-day. and i know he wouldn't cheat on me. because, he doesn't cheat. But, I'm not just into him. So it would make sense to date him get stuff then dump him, But i dont like him.
If I found a guy even liked a little i think i would actually do it.
2007-06-20 07:39:49 · answer #7 · answered by nomoretears4uboo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its Kind of Wrong, I Guess if They No That Your Just Doing it For That Then Who Cares.
2007-06-20 07:38:57 · answer #8 · answered by Kim Imposible 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do think its wrong and I have to admit I did it once when I was younger. You need to think about the other person in the relationship and how you are leading them on.
2007-06-20 07:37:23 · answer #9 · answered by sidewaysmile11 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is wrong, however, I will admit that I did it once. He was really awesome, and filthy rich, and we went out for a couple months, and he bought me tons of stuff, but we had great sex too, but that was about it. I couldn't love him, he started to get on my nerves, so I ended it.
2007-06-20 07:36:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is wrong.Money and gifts are not every thing in life. Do you not prefer love and respect?.
2007-06-20 07:37:52 · answer #11 · answered by xyz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋