To start off i am a 14 year old girl going into highschool/ 9th grade pretty soon. Since 7th grade i havn't really done anything with people out side of school. Sure I have always had people to talk to and hang out with in school but i don't do anything with people aside from that. So when i get to highschool I am going to change that and find some friends that i can hang out with outside of school ( idon't want to be lonlet my whole life.)
So I was wonderiing if anyone had any advice for me beside to be myself because of course i will be myself.
Just to let you know it is not because i am creepy looking or anything i jhust need help on my personality.
Thanks
Allie
2007-06-20 07:21:22 · 5 answers · asked by ALLIE 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
dont be afraid to speak up and show ur opinions!!!!
dont care what other ppl think, it'll just make u self-consious
and be nice to ppl even if they arent nice to u!
good luck!=)
2007-06-20 07:45:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can say hi to people if they say hi to you or even if they don't you can still say hi and draw them into a conversation about some thing you like, a movie you saw, or any thing you would like to talk about. Also you can join some clubs at school and maybe if you are into sports try out for some, you could join the yearbook staff, you can make friends that way. Good luck
2007-06-20 16:18:24 · answer #2 · answered by dawn_myhamsters 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you seem very well about yourself for 14, and you also sound like a very nice person, i dont think you are going to have any problems making friends in or outside high school, once you get to this stage, hanging around together at weekends etc is a natural progression, and what you have to remember is, that everyone else starting high school with you is in the same position as you, high school can seem quite daunting but its also an ideal opportunity to make knew friends that are all experiencing what you are too.
and just for the record-doesnt sound like you need to work on anything where your personality is concerned, you sound very mature and together as you are
Good luck at High school, enjoy it, have fun!
2007-06-20 14:43:34 · answer #3 · answered by ♠ Merlin ♠ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl u need to have fun with your life an hang out with ppl and when you b-day comes up go have a girl's night..
cuz if u don't talk to ppl when u get a job itis going ot be hard cuz u needto tak to every body so when u go to skool take speeach class it well help u a lot it help me..
so have a fath in other's and all way's have fath in you self ok girl friend
2007-06-20 14:46:07 · answer #4 · answered by DimePiece210 S.A.T.F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for starts i'm going to be a sohopmore, when i statred my freshmen year i thought me and my freinds would get picked on, But insetead we joined clubs and made new friends. Maybe you could do that join clubs and make new friends or u could just sit w/ new people at lunch and make new friends!!
2007-06-20 17:47:23 · answer #5 · answered by Heather D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋