that has only been with one man is missing out on anything> ? Would you think that person was smart or a dork?
2007-06-20 07:13:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
How do you tell your husband you are not happy?
2007-06-20 07:14:14 · update #1
He is just not into making love no more! I am hurt and heart broken! I need help! ASAP! I love him but I am not happy !
2007-06-20 07:19:27 · update #2
18 years old ( another life time ) !!
Since I'm older than Noah... along
life's road, I've lost count !!! ;-)
How can you be 'missing out' on
something you've never had ????
As for the 'dork' or 'smart'..... I think
that's to an individual perspective !!
I'm not going to 'judge' someone either
way !!
2007-06-21 11:58:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was 16 years old my first time. I've been with 6 different people. Trust me, you're not missing out on much. What's most important is that you have feelings for the person you are with, nothing is better than that. You could sleep with 20 different people, but none would mean as much as the one you loved, compared to that no one else would even matter. You'll probably forget their names after a while. In this day and age, I admire a person who is comfortable enough with themselves to just stay with the one they love. You are being smart and safe. Anyone who is going to call you a dork for only being with one person is a little too promiscuous.
2007-06-20 14:27:51 · answer #2 · answered by Ahoimatey 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I only dated one person so far in my life. My current boyfriend is slightly older than me (14 years). I don't call that slightly. I never did it with him since we only did went out about a year ago. I am with my first boyfriend and i don't think it's dorky to have dated many people. We should try out different people something i want to do too. I have liked many guys but this guy is the right one for me because he loved me for who i was inside. I never had any success with other guys my age. It was mostly because they weren't interested in me or i was too shy to tell them i liked them. My guy is right for me, he has been there and he is grown up. He was there, he was everywhere etc. So i feel very comfortable with him and i hope we will stay together for a long while.
2007-06-20 14:19:07 · answer #3 · answered by DARIA. - JOINED MAY 2006 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was17 but it was a mistake I wish I would have waited. I have had others, no need to mention how many because that is too personal of a question and no one else will benefit from that information. I don't belive any one is a dork we are all different and need different things at different times.
2007-06-21 16:37:12 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
14, um who said we had to keep count? Ah, after divorce, um, 8 or 9, that all I'm claiming. You aren't missing anything if your satisfied. I would think that person was content if they only had one person in their life. When we aren't happy we begin to stray. Talk with your husband, plan a date with him. Add some spice to the mix and have fun. You don't need someone new, just some new techniques!
2007-06-20 14:30:16 · answer #5 · answered by omgithinkiknow 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was 20. i've been with 7 people total since then (12 yrs.) . i think that if you've found the right person the first time then it's ok to only be with that person. if not, try try again.
if you're not happy anymore, then you need to discuss this with your husband. maybe counseling. if he's not ok with that & you can't make this better, then i suggest separation.
2007-06-20 14:25:12 · answer #6 · answered by KISS MY neice33 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 15. I have been with 13 people. I think that if you were to start out at the age I did, and only stay with that one person, then yes, you are missing out. I know if I was still with the guy I lost my virginity too, I would definitely be missing out!
2007-06-20 14:19:11 · answer #7 · answered by *Droogie* 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
i still have my V card so i don't think i've missed out on anything. I think that if you love a person you shouldn't feel like you've missed out. I mean if you have been with 30 people how lousy should you feel when you meet someone you are truly in love with and sex doesn't feel like anything to you? I would really hate that. idk about anyone else.
2007-06-20 14:27:01 · answer #8 · answered by Sound of Madness 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do think that being with one person all of your life is missing out. Even if this one person is a fantastic lover, people out there have different methods, different ideas of what sex is supposed to be, differents ideas of what the motivation is, but that also justifies why a person would want to be with only one person, so I suppose that's why they feel fine with it.
2007-06-20 14:16:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
I was 14 and did it with an 18yo neighbor girl under her front porch - it was fantastic. The only thing you can do in your case is divorce or have an affair.
2007-06-20 14:29:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋