I did it just *now*. I'm sure people at Marriage and Divorce could see my profile that says I'm same-sex married, but I'm still a bit upset at myself. I often refer to "my beloved" rather than "wife" at more "trivial" categories like NASCAR, as in "my beloved loves Kevin Harvick," just so I don't completely gum up the works with off-topic nonsense.
I asked whether we were the only ones in this situation--my girl cousin and her boy cousin are getting married soon. A lot of people we know ITRW think that's strange.
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AkJLr20shZ41aU_w4pOtWx7sy6IX?qid=20070620101135AAQejd3
Now people there are assuming my wife's a guy, from my phrasing and avatar. I'm so embarrassed. I guess I'll have to clear it up in my answer.
Do you do that? Do you feel embarrassed, or think it's necesary to just "let people assume" sometimes?
2007-06-20 06:33:23 · 4 answers · asked by GreenEyedLilo 7 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I'm sure I do it at times, although nothings popping to mind right now... I think we all strive for integrity, and I do think that striving is good enough... We're all getting better day by day...
2007-06-20 07:17:22 · answer #1 · answered by tomi27410 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope, I'm out, the closet has been demolished. Way back in the dark ages when I first was out, I'd sneak back in sometimes. But I did feel wrong about doing that, so I stopped doing it.
Every person has to judge a situation and act accordingly. There are, unfortunately, times when being out and open is just dangerous.
2007-06-20 06:49:41 · answer #2 · answered by FTW 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i in my opinion have by no potential had a individual call me any names using my orientation. or maybe while my better half and that i are out with our childrens and that's obtrusive we are a gay couple I easily have nevertheless by no potential had that ensue to me. Now sure I do hate it as quickly as I see those issues going on to human beings or as quickly as I see the media perpetuating stereotypes of the gay community. L
2016-12-08 14:38:22 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not embarrased, but depending on who I am with or where, I do not comment. although I am very outspoken on my feelings, sometimes it is best to be quiet.
2007-06-20 08:46:32 · answer #4 · answered by kanei 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋