Broke up with boyfriend.. had sex. with someone else.... he pulled out. I got back with my boyfriend had sex with him in the same week. Now pregnant. Who's baby do you think it is??? Please don't leave me the "shame on you" answers. I am an adult and already know it was wrong...
2007-06-20 06:15:08 · 18 answers · asked by Tina S 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Penetration isn't necessary to become pregnant. The only way you're going to know who the father is will be to have a DNA test done after the baby is born.
2007-06-20 06:18:19 · answer #1 · answered by Elaine P...is for Poetry 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Well my sister in law is now 6 months pregnant, with her child after having claimed that he pulled out. If he ejaculated at all even the slightest before he pulled out then yes it could happen. As to who's baby I would say a DNA test is in the calling once the baby is here. It's a shame the baby should go through that. Maybe you should have thought about things before you slept with some one else. How long did you wait after you broke up with the b/f before you thought there's nothing wrong with sleeping with another dude. It's just sex. Right?
2007-06-20 06:28:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well hard to say because I am now 28 weeks pregnant due to the pullout method so you very well could have gotten pregnant with the pull out guy. You will probably have to wait until the baby is born and do the paternity test. Just let your boyfriend know that there may be a chance of him not being the biological father so he is prepared for any outcome. Good luck!!
2007-06-20 06:20:13 · answer #3 · answered by k 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is absolutely no way to know unless you have a paternity test after the baby is born. Also you may be able to just look at the child and know who's it is if the two guys you slept with were different races. This is going to be a very difficult situation for you, and you may end up alone because of it, I am sorry to say. Good luck, I hope things work out.
2007-06-20 06:21:00 · answer #4 · answered by Marie Jane 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Could be either or. I know it's a stressful situation but really there is nothing that you can do about it now. Just try to relax, stress is not good for the baby. All you can do is wait it out and I hope it works out the way that you want it to. The pull out method does not work, you'll have to get a paternity test after the baby is born.
Good luck!
Very best wishes!
2007-06-20 06:30:10 · answer #5 · answered by gracie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know when you became prego? You might be able to tell by this. Maybe you became pregnant on another week. : ) Keep track of the days you were with each man and when you get an ultrasound to find out exactly when you conceived, see what that says. Otherwise you will have do a DNA test later.
Good Luck and congrats.
2007-06-20 06:55:13 · answer #6 · answered by Kali's Mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do realize that that pull out method is not fool proof, right? There may be spermatozoa in the clear Pre--- fluid discharged before ejaculation. That thought is why the Maury show has so many young ladies who are testing ten guys and not one is the father. No knock on you, just speaking fact. Sorry. At this point, only a blood test can determine who the father is. Good luck.
2007-06-20 06:21:59 · answer #7 · answered by To live is to learn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't be so hard on yourself, i am sure at some point most of us have tried the "pull-out" method. if it were me, i guess i would at the very least be honest with the boyfriend. don't let him go through a whole pregnancy thinking this is his baby, when it may not be. If he loves you, yes he will be a bit angry, but he should stand by you, after all you were broke up, again, you are not the first to have casual sex after a break-up.
2007-06-20 06:45:33 · answer #8 · answered by mammacas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I had to guess it's probably the other man's. Pulling out DOES NOT WORK. If you want to know immediately you can get an amniocentesis and have a DNA test, or of course wait until the baby is born and have a DNA test.
2007-06-20 06:18:41 · answer #9 · answered by Steph 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well it may not be honest but I wouldn't say a damn thing! unless of course the guys are from different races. I don't want to freak you out but do you know that if you buy chance had 2 eggs during this ovulation both guys could each father a baby, you could have twins buy 2 different fathers. DNA testing is gonna be your only way of knowing for sure.
2007-06-20 06:21:24 · answer #10 · answered by kissybertha 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋