6 months ago my wife went on a buisness trip with her job out of town we were having problems at the time i found out she went to a male co-worker for help he ended up in her hotel room she admitted she kissed him she said she did that because he was filling an emotional need that i wasnt at the time she said she made a mistake and that she would stop talking to him so i forgave her 4 months later i caught her on the phone with thesame guy she actually had purchased a seperate cell phone that i did not know about after researching the cell phone i found out she actually flew back there to visit this guy and he flew heire to see her she said she did not sleep with him that she felt guilty so she did not do it she told me the reason she kept talking to him was because i said everything was her fault for cheating she claims it was all emotional and not phsyical he is a coworker for the same company now she promised me again she cut it off she wants to work things out and go to couns
2007-06-20 05:52:11 · 4 answers · asked by daryl s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Wow, this is so sad. I agree with GB that emotional affairs are worse than just sex, although either one represents unfaithfulness. Your wife should end all contact with the other man and seek counseling right away. You should go too, because there may be some problems in your relationship for her to be looking outside the marriage for support. Please don't give up on the marriage yet. Try the counseling, and pray for strength, wisdom, and guidance. God loves you and will help you through this.
2007-06-20 06:17:01 · answer #1 · answered by leslie b 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well your story sounds alot like mine she said she didnt sleep with him also and months later I read an email that said she not only slept with him it had been going on a long time so check her sent email and see if she had been talking about anything you need to know I hope your situation is different but in my opinion she went out of her way to get another phone took trips outta town she slept with him! Period
2007-06-20 06:45:26 · answer #2 · answered by wrongedincali 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh wow. Im on the womens side here but what she did is very wrong. If she does not end all of the communication with him it is over im sorry. Emotional affairs in my opinion are worse then just sex. Good luck but please think of all the "for better and worse".
2007-06-20 06:01:54 · answer #3 · answered by GB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she hid an "emotional" relationship from you and says sex didnt happen? Bull sh!t.
2007-06-20 08:33:43 · answer #4 · answered by Dr. Bling 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋