Is there any advice one could give, if they have or have had experience with this? I feel neglected sometimes when the mood never stays on.
2007-06-20 04:03:24 · 10 answers · asked by lordchaos88 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Hate to break it to you but she's probably seeing someone else.
2007-06-20 04:10:35 · answer #1 · answered by pm 5 · 0⤊ 4⤋
It's not always a disorder. Sometimes it's the relationship that effects the mood. Are you being considerate to her needs? Are you making it enjoyable for her also? Is she stressed? Stress can play a big part. If she doesn't feel satisfied or has to much going on in her life that no one is willing to help with, she could have low sex drive just from being over tired and stressed out. Women are not like men...we can't just jump into it and be done in five minutes. We need time and we need our partner to be considerate and understanding and not just please themselves. Try to make an effort to relieve her stress and unbusy her life so that she can feel intimate. Sometimes all it takes is some relaxation and knowing her partner cares and loves her.
2007-06-20 11:14:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Try taking a Tantric massage class - low desire is related to stress and a good deal of it can be improved by relaxing and enjoying the moment (massage, gentle touch and soft gentle music can go a long way). Try taking walks together after dinner or sleeping late on Sunday then having a special breakfast. Most women begin to lose desire because the feel overwhelmed and stressed by their environment by creating a safe haven and sanctuary you can both enjoy a much improved intimacy and relief. Good Luck!
2007-06-20 11:16:07 · answer #3 · answered by Walking on Sunshine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey man women are not sex objects let me gie you some advice to enjoy a good sex life all your life after all you can only have so much sex if you pester her that is abuse it will put her off it puts most women off find her rhythm be patience let the excitement build then spontanuity happens the love making is better or find a girl who needs more sex the best thing is to be honest before the relationship and inquire into the character of the ladies sexual appetite and live within her limitations women don't need sex they need love and affection far more than sex is the gift to us men in reply for love and affection hey we all had to learn at sometime sexual abuse of women causes them to have low sexual desire the sooner all men learn that it is up to men if men actually like women and not just sex to learn never abuse women then women will become relaxed and enjoy sex if you want more sex find a lady far older than yourself who is mature an relaxed about it enjoy
2007-06-20 11:15:56 · answer #4 · answered by theanswer read it again please 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stress, depression, illness, guilt, anger, medications, etc. there are so many things that can cause low desire. it could even be a relationship issue such as distrust, dishonesty, jealousy, etc. if nothing has changed and her desire has lowered since you first met her than maybe she is not enjoying it as much as you. talking about it and working through it has helped me in my past and also to not take it personal if my partner is not as sexual as i am. i found that the longer i have a partner the more i have to put in extra effort to keep things "adventurous" in the bedroom. men seem to have it easy in the bedroom compared to us women, we sometimes need that "romantic" touch to get us going. maybe if you get back to basics she'll be more responsive?
2007-06-20 11:33:04 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's low?
Low compared to you....!
Is it low compared to the norm?
Are people supposed to change to meet the norm statistics?
What disorder? Does it have a name?
So now you are contemplating that your gf has a disorder because you want sex more often?
Isn't that thinking a little twisted?
2007-06-20 12:34:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to bring another chick into the bedroom with you that might livley things up. it will probaly destroy your reltionship to, but form what your saying its not that good to begin with it. It really sounds like she is cheating on you. But if shes not then she is just bored. Go the the vidoe store and buy not rent but buy some porn. And go hit on ohter chicks
2007-06-20 11:38:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
dont feel neglected, and dont take it personal. depends how old she is as to what the cause may be. tell her to talk to her doctor about it, i know the doc can help.
2007-06-20 11:11:21 · answer #8 · answered by yesiamalesbian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is she on the pill? with some women , that can wreak havoc on their sex drive. also diet...the healthier you eat, the better you feel...same with exercises. it's possible that she's feeling blah with out realizing it!
2007-06-20 11:12:43 · answer #9 · answered by tshffman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eat her out she would love it thats if you do it
and chang things you do in the bed room
2007-06-20 11:11:38 · answer #10 · answered by irese 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋