you and your boyfriend were together for 2mths already...........???????????
2007-06-20 03:06:56 · 13 answers · asked by ashika p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I would stay. For starters he obviously did it before you were in his life, so no cheating there. And also how sure are you and him that this baby is his? If you really like him, give hima shot. Could be just some jealous girl, wanting ur man.
2007-06-20 03:12:11 · answer #1 · answered by wiked2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would back off. I wouldn't leave just yet if you really don't want nor yet have a reason. If you leave too soon you'll always wonder. instead wait for a reason if any should occur at all. the pregnancy might not be true i know females that do things like that all the time just to try to get their man back once they see he's gone. Or what if it is not his, what if she chooses down the line not to have the baby or miscarry. Then you'll try to run back to him and he wouldn't want you cause you ran out on him. (For no real reason) wait and see how she (the baby mama) acts if she's going to use the baby against him (cause then that's drama) and see how he handles a pregnant ex and a current girlfriend. Just because there is a child being born doesn't necessarily mean there will be drama. I guess it all depends on the type of person you are if you can handle for awhile his confusion or irritation cause he's gonna be both. Especially if he wanted nothing ever to do with this girl, and now he's trapped with her larking in the background of his life. See how it all unfolds you'll be able to tell in time pay attention to the signs. But if i was you i probably wouldn't make someone else's mess my own. So if in your heart you don't want to leave him then don't........ But have your boots on there could be a lotta bull coming your way.
Good-luck!
2007-06-20 03:35:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, Well right now she needs some support but you can't do all this by yourself. You need to tell an adult and she needs to let her parents know. They will be shocked and the guy she slept with will be most probably be into trouble with the police about this. The reason being is that she is under the age of consent and he is an adult so technically, in eyes of law he is a paedophile and it classed as child abuse. She needs support right now on what she is going to do with the baby. It is a big life-changing decision she needs to make and she needs to know you there for her and won't judge her. She needs to look at all the options whilst making a decision on HER OWN on what she feels is best for HER. Whether that keeping baby, putting baby up for adoption or having an abortion. You as a friend can be there for her and support her when she is going to need you. And trust me she will need you. Lx
2016-05-20 08:05:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on how you feel about the relationship. The fact that you have only been together for months doesn't really matter. How you feel about him is what matters. 1. He didn't cheat cuz this happened before you two got together. 2. Who knows if this girl is telling the truth or if it is really his. 3. If it is his this doesn't necessarily make him a playa or a bad guy.... find out details..... maybe they had been seriously dating and they broke it off for other reasons and he did not know she was pregnant. The two of you should both talk about your feelings together. Good luck!
2007-06-20 03:50:58 · answer #4 · answered by tiffany c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would back off and give him a chance to figure things out. He has a lot going on now that there is another innocent life involved. I would be a supportive friend but give him space to consider what is best for him and his "family". Do you really need to be with someone who will be balancing a child and a new relationship? 2 months is not a lot of investment on your end.
2007-06-20 03:13:13 · answer #5 · answered by texascutie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG! Baby mama drama! Well it all depeneds on the baby-mama. If she is not after getting back with him then I wouldn't leave. But if she is going to be a pest and make your life a living hell because he has moved on, honey I would drop him like a hot cake!
2007-06-20 03:14:55 · answer #6 · answered by MORENA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Assuming it was the truth, it would all depend on him. If he was a decent human being and owned up to his responsiblity, and still wanted me in his life, then absolutely I would stay with him. If he didn't want to be with me while going through all this, then I would leave at his request. If he was a total *** and refused to own up to his responsiblity, I would leave.
2007-06-20 04:12:54 · answer #7 · answered by Erin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOPE...its only been two months, I'd leave his *** right there with his drama, because that is what it will be...drama. Makes you wonder if he falls into ahabbit of sleeping with girls RAW and getting them pregnant and leaving.
2007-06-20 03:11:19 · answer #8 · answered by ~ ♥ ~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him, let him responsible and be a father of his child. Do the right thing.
2007-06-20 03:12:47 · answer #9 · answered by Penny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope
i would let him go
no baby momma drama
2007-06-20 03:10:01 · answer #10 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋