normally,each wednesday,me and all my female friends will go out and read books in the library.i was very close to dai,my aggresive friend.i mean ,i laid my head on her shoulder.all my friends did that.
so...next day they told me that we(dai & me) are like lesbian.they even take picture of us and spread it among their friends.its "their" friends.and ,(i dont know if their trying to cover their wrongdoing)they said i better stay away from dai.i knew they hate her for some reason.but,they even put me in shame.how could they do this to me?i never done something bad to them..but why did they do this to me.
2007-06-19 20:49:58 · 17 answers · asked by yuki129 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Time for you to find new friends....
2007-06-19 21:23:33 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, sometimes true friends that care for us hurt our feelings. But in your case, I guess they cannot be considered as true friends because they did something that ruin your reputation. If they are really true to you, then they should not betray you by taking picture of you and your close friend and spreading it among your other friends.
The best thing for you to do is just to stay away from them because they might do something more than what they did.
2007-06-19 21:15:20 · answer #2 · answered by ettel_rahc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people are rude and mean and they enjoy putting others down. Some people find something wrong and they make too much of it. When people say something to you in private, without an audience and that thing hurts you. If you know that they truly love you and have your best intrest in mind. then yes they are the only ones that love you enough to say the things you need ot hear no matter how painful they are. This is the point. they say it because they love you that much that they can hurt themselves by seeing you experiece pain at their words.
2007-06-19 20:58:10 · answer #3 · answered by Shoosh S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are not your true friends. If anyone says anything to you, just tell them that it is time for them to grow up, and walk away like it does not bother you at all. There is nothing wrong with friends leaning on other friends.
2007-06-19 20:57:13 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Approach them and find out. If they did so with malicious intent, they are not your friends. Ditch them. If they are simply clueless, you have got to make a decision if you want to remain friends with such people. You might get hurt again.
2007-06-19 20:55:32 · answer #5 · answered by Stanley W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dizz all of us do it sweetie, being truthful and tell them the way you experience is the suitable way of dealing with it. in the event that they're a real pal they're going to see previous blunders and forgive. Love ya hun Hugs Sugar trojan horse
2016-10-18 03:02:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
THEY are not really your friends if they are going to do this to you. There is nothing wrong with you doing this with your bud. My best bud and I walk arm in arm when we go to the mall together...its just something we've always done, no shame in it, especially if she is like a sister to you!
2007-06-19 20:56:22 · answer #7 · answered by ~~*Paradise Dreams*~~ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them out what u feel about it.if they dint care and don't take serious walk away.this is not the type of friends u looking for.its not hard to have a friends and u don't need a friends like them who hurt your feeling with stupid reason
2007-06-19 20:55:55 · answer #8 · answered by lets talk-now w 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it wasnt nice of them to take a pic of you.. And they shuldnt hav said your lesbian maybe u should just tell that it wasnt a nice thing to do, after all you guys were friends.
2007-06-19 20:57:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do they care about u?obviously they don't..they just jealous u became too friendly with dai. I dont ask u to leave group or what, but if they said it again, just tell them "I know what im doin".
2007-06-19 21:08:13 · answer #10 · answered by Heafy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think so ... but watch out b/c your best freind may indeed be your worse enemy and you never know until its something big
2007-06-20 07:06:40 · answer #11 · answered by BSpitz89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋