Her personality has totally changed over the past two years and not for the better. Should I tell her how much of a pain in the *** she's become or just keep my distance and hope she changes back to like she was in the good ole days?
2007-06-19 18:44:11 · 20 answers · asked by neve_freak2001 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
tell her
2007-06-19 18:46:26 · answer #1 · answered by Antoine J 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if it's so much changing as growing. A lot of times when people grow, their personalities warp. Basically, what I'm trying to say is...the person who was your best friend isn't coming back. Maybe it's time to find a new one. If you don't like her anymore, why be friends? It'll hurt like crazy for her to hear, but still, it's not fair to lie to her. Because, in essence, that's what you're doing. ...Before you tell her to hit the road though, maybe you should talk to her about the change.
2007-06-20 01:53:25 · answer #2 · answered by clairvoyant_dreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it took her two years to change into a "bad person" and its going to take her a couple of years to change into a good person. SO therefore tell her she is a pain and see whats up and what she wants to do about it
2007-06-20 01:49:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think the friendship is strong enough talk to her if you think it will make things worst then yes distance yourself and hopefully she'll realize that her new attitude made you distance yourself and she's be back to the friend you once knew. I'm sure my friends felt the same way about me after I lost my bother I was a total cold b***h but they gave me space and now we're still the best friends. ^_^ DJ
2007-06-20 01:48:37 · answer #4 · answered by DJ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her! Also remember its a waste of time to change people they change by them self so just let them be you might not be fond of her but others may.
2007-06-20 01:49:21 · answer #5 · answered by nenamexicana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her but nicely, so she'd be more likely to take it to heart. Then you won't haven nay trouble staying away from her as she'll avoid you.
2007-06-20 01:49:14 · answer #6 · answered by Slumlord 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her, but don't tell her about her being a pain in the asss.
2007-06-20 01:48:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a new Best Friend - people outgrow each other - time to move on.
2007-06-20 01:47:38 · answer #8 · answered by • Koala • uʍop ɹǝpun 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeah , of cos.
tell her and let her understand .
if you just keep it to yourself nobody will understand
and she will continue what she is right now.
she would never change and never understand
how people tend to feel abt her.
good luck!
2007-06-20 01:51:39 · answer #9 · answered by =stellaR= 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If something bad has happened in her life, don't drop her...
If she's just being a jerk, phase her out, but keep the door open...
2007-06-20 01:47:42 · answer #10 · answered by Splash♥ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She aint gonna change...TRUST. So youre better off telling her....buena suerte.
2007-06-20 01:48:41 · answer #11 · answered by ♥GATZ-GAL ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋