And if they do. Is it a good idea to be or have one???
2007-06-19 18:07:02 · 6 answers · asked by sf_lagunero 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Mythology & Folklore
Ok it's Benefits sorry, but hey thanks a lot for the responses, they 're all very good. Where can I look for a "bang buddy" ?? What do you recommend?? Or is it just by luck???
2007-06-20 00:36:22 · update #1
Ok, number one, you really need to learn what spell check is, and number two, friends with benefeits are people who have sex together without moving in or having any strings attached. Otherwise know as a booty call.
I would love to have a booty call or be a booty call.
2007-06-19 21:33:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. I'm still getting over an awful friendship with someone. It was my first real friendship and I did everything I could to make it last, but to be honest, I don't think she cared one bit. I thought it was the closest, best friendship I'd ever had and eventually she just wasn't that interested anymore. I guess the important thing to know is it's not your fault and the only thing you can do is be a little more guarded. I know it's horrible but I've learned that it really is best if you save all your loyalty for yourself. I thought this girl was awesome and always built her up. I tried to be there for her cause that's what I thought a good friend was, but in the end, I realized that I should have cared more about myself than her or anyone else. I missed out on a lot of opportunities cause I was trying to be a really good and loyal friend and now I'm kind of screwed up while this so called friend who didn't care has graduated and probably has a kick *** job. I should have been more loyal to me than her and I should have cared about me, not her. Being a good friend is awesome, but if someone's not being a good friend back, then they're probably not who you should give your loyalty too. Good friends will be loyal back.
2016-05-20 04:05:39 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I had one for three years. We hung out together, dined out, checked out shows, stores, museums and fairs. When the mood hit us, we slept together. We stopped the "with benefits" part when he found a woman he loved. We're still good friends. I also resent the booty and bang references, because there was a lot more friend than benefits to the arrangement. And I agree--both should have established rules and understanding.
2007-06-20 15:08:00 · answer #3 · answered by Jess 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people have them, but they are called Friends with Benefits, rather than benefices. I guess it could be a good idea if there are ground rules set and obeyed by both parties.
2007-06-19 23:04:18 · answer #4 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Friends with Benefits" It may or may not be such a good idea? Just find yourself a "Bang Buddy" instead
2007-06-19 18:16:23 · answer #5 · answered by Rosie the Riviter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What like Cardinal McNolty?
2007-06-19 19:28:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋