So yeah Ive been talking to my husbands uncle......& we have something going on.......I havent done anything w/ him yet but we talk about it......I really like him alot & I think I may be falling in love w/ him. I dont know what to do!?! Im so confused!
2007-06-19 17:04:56 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Are you looking for heartache and pain? I hope you don't regret it. Keep busy as being a good wife. there's so many temptations outthere.
2007-06-20 02:22:19 · answer #1 · answered by Seph2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 24 ? How old is your husband ?
Um can we say you're looking for a SUGAR DADDY ?
If you care anything about the man you married or take those vows seriously, then stay away from your husband's uncle.
If he respects your husband he should do the same.
What do you mean We have something going on ?
You said you haven't done anything yet ? If you haven't done anything yet then there's nothing goin on but a crush...
Falling for your husbands uncle ? Nasty.
If you seriously want to be with your husbands uncle, tell your husband the truth and let him get on with his life as soon as possible so he can find a good woman, and you and your husbands uncle can be cut out of the family.
Your husband deserves at least that.
2007-06-19 17:22:34 · answer #2 · answered by cnn360coffeebubbles 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hey man, Thats just wrong and you as an adult should keep away from the uncle. Or end it with your husband and leave the family alone. You just don't cross lines like that. Nothing good can come out of it and you know that. If you do it you will feel like a whoore and you wont be able to take it back. And yes it will get back to your hubby eventually. Does he really deserve to be hurt like this? You dont love him then. Leave him so you can do what you want with whom you want. But not while he's trying to support you.
2007-06-19 17:17:22 · answer #3 · answered by Hey-man 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
A girl is to go on through life wasting her time wondering what to do?? A "mature" woman would want to pay attention to her husband's needs, stop being selfish and not worry about trying fulfill someone else's needs. What comes around goes around. And in this situation, if you do decide to pursue this uncle..I hope your husband would find a woman who really loves and appreciates him for what he does for them. By that time, you may want him back, and hopefully he will live happily ever after with her because he deserves a faithful woman. I mean we do tend to see other 'hot' guys out there, but come on, you're falling in love with him - back up/stop talking about it! It sounds like your husband should move on anyway to get himself to get a better person to be with. (How could you think twice about this?? The only way I'd understand is if he was beating your a** and abusing you or something happening in your marriage deeper than that you're not telling us...otherwise, if you get really hurt by this, you will truly deserve the pain you'll cause everyone else in the family - I hope you don't have kids)
2007-06-19 17:44:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't be an idiot. Tell him that you've been stupid and you will not talk to him like that anymore. If you think he might tell your husband, tell him first and tell him that you were got caught up in a stupid fantasy and are true to him. Then stay away from him (uncle), give yourself a sobering smack, and grow up.
There is probably less than 1% chance of this working out well if you keep going the way you are going. Save your marriage while you still can.
2007-06-19 17:25:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Obviously your husbands uncle doesn't think much of his nephew hey? And as for you~~~you're married and whats more it's your husbands uncle how could you even think about it? You aren't in love with this guy, it's just infatuation probably cos he's giving you attention. Imagine how your husband would feel if he knew what was going on~~~how would you feel if your husband felt that way about your aunt? Back off and concentrate on your marriage while you've still got one!
2007-06-19 17:38:14 · answer #6 · answered by Mez 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What are you so confused about? You know very well that it is not right for you to have an illicit relationship with your husband's uncle. Stop the insanity before your husband finds out what is going on between you and his uncle.
2007-06-19 17:33:31 · answer #7 · answered by Belen 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A girl takes a long nap, wakes up and quits cheating on her husband. It's bad enough that you are even thinking about it but to have it be a family member is so much worse. If you don't want to be with your husband anymore for whatever reason do him a favor and end your marriage but do not start having an affair with his uncle.
2007-06-19 17:10:31 · answer #8 · answered by indydst8 6 · 5⤊ 1⤋
SO, yr husband is not the good guy? yr husband's uncle older then u about 30years, so do u think how many time u will can live with him? U just 24.u really think over about it?
2007-06-19 20:54:32 · answer #9 · answered by dani ng 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Imagine the pain you will be causing your husband.
Imagine the problems you will cause in his family
Are you really so heartless?
Marriage is a lifetime committment YOU made- stop seeing the uncle and invest everything in your marriage.. tell your husband what you need from him to make things work.. you will be glad you did!
best of luck!
2007-06-19 17:23:39 · answer #10 · answered by Laura S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are not looking for love you are looking for a dad
stay away from that old perv or he will ruin your life
Go get some counseling. you could hurt a lot of people and split a family right down the middle.
Ever heard what goes around comes around....... run don't walk. you are on some dangerous ground.
Marriage vows are holy. When you come against a marriage you are walking on holy ground and defiling it.
be a person of character and honor. or it will come back to you someday and bite you in the behind!
When you don't know what to do! do nothing!
2007-06-19 17:22:47 · answer #11 · answered by tennessee 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋