ok we werent really friends but she just used me to go places like sea world or soak city or las vegas. now that i stop taking her she hates me she thinks shes so cool and pop because a boy asked her out wich is part of the gansta group they think theyre cool but there not what should i do urrr she even tryed to make me jealouse with mcdonalds while i was eating carrots i want to be better
2007-06-19 16:41:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well, it seems to me you are already"better", by keeping your cool. That is great. Dating someone from a gang i am sure you know that is not so cool, so you are in the right direction. Keep up the good work and just smile. Smiles will save you a lot of headaches from this girl. Seem happy and don't act like you are upset in front of her. Good good luck...stay 'cool'.
2007-06-19 17:08:28 · answer #1 · answered by OXOX_4_U_Dhurba_n_Nepal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See, if she is noticing that you are being bothered by her actions, she is most likely going to keep doing it. Although it may be hard try:
not caring! Not caring is the best thing to do. So what if she hates you! You never liked her in the beginning and you guys weren't even friends in the beginning! Shes just a lowlife some of a ***** to be doing that kind of stuff. Using people and everything. Especially using you! Yes it will be hard to not let your anger get to you about her but just keep your mind off of her. Do stuff with your REAL FRIENDS.
She got asked out by the "cool" people? and she thinks shes "cool"? For the record...she isn't cool for doing what she is doing. Remember that. Also remember that who in the world cares that she got asked out by some guy!!! Wow!!! That must have changed her life drastically!!! Everyone gets asked out practically! What makes her the most coolest person ever to get asked out also? Yes getting asked out by someone is cool and exciting but no need to make a huge deal about it! Just forget about her!!!
Can't forget about her??? Ignore her when she is trying to get your attention. If she gets your attention, just look and then just look away again. Don't look back!!! No matter how much of an urge it is to look back at what she is doing, dont! That just makes her seem like shes the bigger person and trying to get advantage of you.
Concentrate on what you are doing. Whether it is talking to your friends, studying or doing homework, or watching a movie. Don't have any contact or thinking or talking about her.
If she is really bugging you, "vent" your feelings to someone you trust. E ven if it is your dog! A friend or a parent. I would personally vent to my friend about this girl. My friend would listen to me no matter how long i talked about. Just let your feelings out until you feel satisfied. But don't talk about her every single day of your life.
Mad enough to scream? Scream in a pillow. Punch somethign like the pillow. Anything to get your anger out. But don't punch the girl or scream where everyone in the world can hear you!
Go to a quiet spot to organize your thoughts. Don't talk to anyone on the phone, don't go on the computer, just sit there and think. You could read a book or sleep for a while to help calm yourself down.
Draw a picture of the girl. Draw her however you want. Make her look funny looking that would make you laugh all the time. You could either tear it up and throw it away or put it somewhere where you could always look at it and make you laugh. Or write a letter to the girl (READ ON) vent all your feelings that you want to say to her (READ ON) then rip it up and throw away the paper. It helps me when i am mad when i do that. dont ask. But if you are goign to show this picture of letter to a friend, make sure it is to TRUSTWORTHY friends and not friends that have any contact to her. Because if it to get out to her somehow, you may be in a big big pickle!
Just remember not to let her get to you or else she is winning! If you can show that she isn't bothering you, you will win and the girl will just eventually stop or if she continues to do it, it will make you more stronger that you are able to ignore her for doing what she is doing!!! good luck!
2007-06-20 00:00:15 · answer #2 · answered by FallenFootsteps22 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show more class than her. In fact, people will feel the worst when someone is polite to them after they were mean. I'm not saying to give her things again, just be polite but be friends with people who are classy like you.
Don't sweat stuff like this - there are so many great things in life, so focus on and enjoy those things.
2007-06-19 23:49:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore and leave her alone. Besides, it seems that your the one with the power (i.e. tickets to Sea World, Las Vegas). If she's just using you, then there's no point in wasting one good ticket on her -- take someone who loves you and cares for you instead. Or are you using her, in return of her using you, to be popular?
2007-06-19 23:46:52 · answer #4 · answered by ♣ ♦ ♥ ♠ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Focus your energy on something else.
A user isn't even worth your time.
Don't try to compete with her. She sounds like a scum.
You're already better than her.
2007-06-19 23:45:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the girl to f'u'c'k off and tell her how you feel, people will see you are more "kool" than she is by standing up to her, becuause if you think the things about her others are bound to think the same about her...she seems like a *****...so yea man just tell her to jump off a cliff or something...
2007-06-19 23:46:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your trying to play her game, dont she will beat you on the account that she has more experience. Become your own person and screw what she thinks of you!
2007-06-19 23:49:50 · answer #7 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Want to be better? You're already better. She was obviously jealous of you and you need to just ignore her.
2007-06-19 23:47:58 · answer #8 · answered by McCayla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ignore her. if she keeps doing it then make her jealous. it worked for me.
2007-06-19 23:45:40 · answer #9 · answered by Jojo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like a jerk!
2007-06-19 23:45:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋