how old should you be?

Question

is it worng for a 15 year old to have sex i dont think so but some people do

Answer 1

Think about this. Can you imagine what it would be like to wait until your wedding night and experiencing your first time with the person that you are going to spend the rest of your life with? That, I think, would be the greatest gift you could give to one another. It would be a powerful act of love.

However, I hope you practice safe sex regardless of what you decide.

Answer 2

Well, the danger is, that as mature as you are, sex is a big deal. It's a hard thing to handle at 15. You may not be emotionally prepared for it at that age. And you have to realize that even though you love the guy, you probably are not going to be with him the rest of your life at this age. Sex complicates everything, it makes breaking up much more heart breaking, and you will have to live with the possibility that he is going to tell his friends about it. And probably not in a flattering way. In any case, you don't want people talking about you like that. Also, there are stds and pregnancy to worry about. No birth control method works everytime. You are young and have plenty of time. I wouldn't rush it, the time will come, you know? Relax and be young for a while. There's no reason to be in a hurry. Wait until you know yourself a little better and know what you want in a guy a little more clearly. Once you do it, you can't take it back. Don't add regrets to your life you don't need.

So...I think 15 is probably too young.

Answer 3

I would say that it is not good there are too many diseases out there and worse you could get pregnant. Sex is something special that you should share with your husband. Guys your age want to have sex with you and then tell all there friends and then you end up looking like a whore. I would not recommend having sex until you are old enough to take on the responsibilities of your actions.

Answer 4

Yeah I'd say that's too young. I did it for the first time when I was 16, so I'm not one to talk but I think kids really should wait until they are 18 to have sex.

Answer 5

Yes because your not married at 15 in this country. In other countries yes you can legally get married at 12 even but not in the USA therefore it is illegal to have sex. Plus the Bible says to have sex when you are married. Because sex before marriage is fornication. Fornication is a sin.

Answer 6

I'm not sure at 15 that I would have enjoyed sex, so I'm not sure how others would. I waited until I was 17, and truly loved the guy. We dated, and he waited, for months, and I caved in when it truly felt right. I had many opportunities prior to that but I wanted it to mean something. I have no regrets whatsoever.

Answer 7

Yes it is. There are so many more important things in your life to being worrying about when you are 15 than who you are sleeping with or if you could possibly be pregnant. I think you should cherish your childhood, and have fun with your friends outdoors, rather than in the sack! Otherwise you could end up really regretting it in the future!

Answer 8

please listen to me on this, you might have the urge to do things when it comes to sex, but the bible says you must be married. you are not mature to handle this at that young of an age. i too am a teen but i know i shouldn't do that stuff. the guy/girl (if you roll that way) WILL LEAVE YOU. they will not stay with you at this young of an age. for all you know you could get a disease even from doing it once. if you get something like HIV, or something that starts with "H", you will not be able to get rid of it. and could pass it on to your future husband, would if he actually dies from it because you couldn't close your legs? think of your future, not the present.

Answer 9

15 is too young. You still have your whole life ahead of you. Trust when the time is right you will meet the right person to have sex with.

Answer 10

for some reason it is wrong considering the morals with the christian churches that one should engage in sex only when your married, and with your age, i don't think your already married. but for some who are older than you and are unmarried tend to do it anyway...and aside from breaking the morality, your most likely destroying your body especially when you start off too young, you could get cervical cancer... and if you're not protected, you could acquire various types of std's and worst is hiv/aids...