Why cant people just leave me alone and let me be?????

Question

Y cant people just leave me alone and let me be. I have been on my own since I left my mom at 11 cuz she beat and stabbed me multiple times. my dead died when I was 3 so couldn't live with him. I am sick of all my friends deception and back stabbing and am done with all of them. I never had a girlfriend and dont ever want one, no I am not gay I just want to be left alone. People keep telling me that its not good and no one is an island and that I am gonna be very lonely, but I feel fine alone not lonely just alone. How can I get people to just leave me alone and stop bothering me? Is there a way to get rid of people other then being an asshole, cuz if they wont leave me alone I am gonna start being an asshole to get rid of people. So can u help me get rid of all people , what can I do to make everyone not want to even talk to me???

i aint gonna post no sappy story on here and anyway wht does that have to do with the people around me.

sounds more fun to me if everyone would just leave me alone and stop talking to me and stop telling me how to live my life

U make it sound like being alone makes u sad and lonely well not for me I rather have it that way I dont give a damn about anyone but myself and I love it that way

U make it sound like being alone makes u sad and lonely well not for me I rather have it that way I dont give a damn about anyone but myself and I love it that way

Answer 1

Go volunteer in a homeless shelter or somewhere else where people have bigger problems than you. You can reach out to them, and they won't try to pry into your problems, I guarantee you that.

Good luck!

Answer 2

Sorry, I really had to answer this- you sound like me. I tried to do exactly what you're trying to do. I told every one to fck off and even dropped out of school to shake off teachers. I did fine on my own. And the only way to get people to leave you alone is 1)stop talking or 2)be an asshole. Some people just do better by themselves, and I'm one of them. In the end, I kept a few close friends and barely that. I still hang out, but I pick people I know I'll never see again. You'll never be as alone as you want, and there'll always be those few people who don't want to go away. I know you don't think so, but you should hold on to at least them. They're the ones who won't hurt you on purpose. If you don't have them, then maybe you are better off completly alone.

Answer 3

You could be really boring, I guess. Instead of telling them something dramatic like you want to be alone and you don't need anybody, try a long monologue about some subject you know they don't care about. They'll be inching towards the door before you know it.

But sometimes when you never had something, you don't miss it because you never had it, but you might be pleasantly surprised if you had it. You never know, maybe one day you will find a good friend and actually like it. People usually cut way back on the stupid drama as they get older, which makes them a whole lot more pleasant to be around. Even introverts can enjoy friends.

Answer 4

You sound very lonely. Pft. You are and you know it. Don't mean to be harsh, but don't deny it. Live like this for a while. See how fun it is, see that you aren't "alone". Because you are, and if you don't begin to socialize you will be all your life. It's not cool. It's not satisfying. It's sad. You have two choices. You can either accept everyone into your world, or you can shut yourself from everyone else and live alone. Tell me, which sounds more fun? You want to be sad, you want to be alone. But you don't want to be happy. How many people are satisfied by being alone and sad? How many people are happy having a good life? Remember. You always have a choice. Make one, and make the right one. It's your life. If you screw up, no one will fix it for you. Yes, be afraid. Because if you aren't afraid right now, you will be for the rest of your life. Overcome it. But, like i've kept saying, it's up to you.

Answer 5

It sounds like you have been through alot, and it would be hard for anyone on here to know where to start. I think you should consider talking to a counselor, if you havent already. Its not a bad thing to talk to one and it doesnt mean that you needy. Since you have trouble getting close to other people, a counselor would be someone that you could get your problems out to and not have to worry about being in a relationship/friendship with them. You could still have your way and be alone, but you would have someone who could help you should you need it - no strings attached. What do you think? Keep in mind those people are just trying to help you and are just concerned. Congrats for not responding in a mean way, I know unwanted help can be pretty annoying. Try out what I suggested and good luck.

Answer 6

You need professional help. Obviously you feel like no one cares for you by what you've been through. You need to get it out of your system so you can live a normal HAPPY life...
No matter what you will always be around people. Work, school...
You will end up being lonely, no matter what you think. Years will go by and you will regret letting everyone go.
Talk to someone. You need it.

Answer 7

your under the age of 18 so people think you need parent wisdom do you will not end up in jail.some care but some people can,t see you how old you are in your head. or exsprance. i ,m jest telling you what you want to know that,s all.

Answer 8

life is hard but you always need 1 person even thoughn its hard to ignore people just push them away do what u want dont listen to them they dont live your life you do it may be hard bt just remember some one is always worse off no matter how bad if you need to talk im here and i dont backstab i know how it feels

Answer 9

Stop acting like you need help!
wa wa wa :(

Act normal for a change and people will stop bothering you!
Example instead of telling them "stop bothering me" you say "thanks for the advice" or "I appreciate it", you have fulfilled there search and they will stop bothering you. Eventually they will probably ignore you. Then you can finally be happy!

Answer 10

Post sappy stories on Yahoo Answers, and no one will want to talk to you.