I was kinda pressured into getting married because I felt obligated because of her level of commitment. I love her dearly but she is different than she was before. I was in prison for 9 months and she stuck it out with me. I married her the day of my releas and we had to move in with her mom so we could save money for a house. She isnt the same. She is a lot different around her mom and a lot different because we live here and without staying with her mom I would be homeless. Should I get out now or try to make this work. We have been married for 1 1/2 months now.
2007-06-19 15:32:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Not the best way to start a marriage with you already feeling you where pressured into it. Next living with her Mother is another negative part of it. Hopefully soon you two can get out on your own and then she might be different. If you both love each other why not give it a little more time?
2007-06-19 15:36:46 · answer #1 · answered by Krinta 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why does everyone think divorce is the answer?!?!?!? She LOVES you and stuck by your side while you were in the slammer. She's still with you now that she's living w/ her mother! C'mon! Sounds like she was hoping for a life together w/ just you, like a normal family should be. Not sharing space w/ her mom. I'm sure she loves her mom and maybe acts different because of respect or maybe some personal issues w/ her family but you can't hold that against her (hey, I act differently around my family rather than my friends, don't a lot of people?) Just give her time, talk it out, and DEFINITELY look to getting your own place to start a life together. She needs a strong guy right now and you can't just ditch her b/c something small is annoying you-how petty is that?
2007-06-19 15:38:07 · answer #2 · answered by lar_bob8604 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are trying to adjust to being released from prison, being newly married, and living with an in-law! This will take a lot of time!
I think you should give it a year starting after you two move into your own place.
2007-06-19 15:55:40 · answer #3 · answered by The Naughty Librarian 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a job and rent a place.Get your act together. if you didnt wnat to marry her, you should have been man enough not to.Dont punish the one who loves you because you let her badger you into marrying her before you were ready.Personally I think her mother is a bonafide 100% idiot for going along with her daughter wanting to marry a convict, sorry.I would have told her to wait till he gets out and gets on his feet and makes it a yr or so.Then even I would have said, go ahead because I know we all make dumb mistakes.
2007-06-19 15:39:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your not happy you are not happy it is that simple.
2007-06-19 15:39:39 · answer #5 · answered by lyttledarlin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋