i have adhd and she is always calling me retard it hurts me so much she has turned my family against me i need god back in my life but i feel like a 2 faced that only comes to god when i need help my mom and dad are fighting alot and i think they are going to get divorced i am 15 and my mom tells me what i can and cant wear i know i am a trouble maker but its not fair can u guys give me advice
2007-06-19 15:18:23 · 3 answers · asked by stunata 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sweetheart I don't know exactly to tell you what to do. But I will tell you that your mother is in the wrong for degrading you. It sounds like she is taking her misery and pain out on you. Just keep trying to talk to her about it and your father. It also wouldn't hurt to talk to a school counselor. Best wishes.
2007-06-19 15:26:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no offence because i know shes your mom, but she seems kind of horrible.
well, if she calls u a retard, and u hate it, then say this to her:
"hey, the word 'retard' is a verb meaning to hinder, or to hold someone back, so u cant use it as a noun to call someone a 'retard' so maybe your vocabulary is a little 'retarded"
ugh thats horrible! i feel for u.
2007-06-19 22:25:00 · answer #2 · answered by yeahxitsxsarah 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she is taking her anger towards your father out on you. Ben their and done that. About the only thing you can do is understand she isn't really focusing your anger towards you. She does it because she knows you can't fight back where as your father can.
2007-06-19 22:53:20 · answer #3 · answered by Belgariad 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋