I have trouble keep it up during sex. My mind wanders. Any suggestions? Does being a bit out of shape have to do with anything?
2007-06-19 15:15:24 · 10 answers · asked by AColling74 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Is your mind is wandering because the person you are having sex with no longer excites you? If you no longer have intimate feelings towards who you are with, this could be your problem.
Or or you stuck in a rut? If so, try focusing on what you're doing in bed. Dirty talk works, and it will help to focus the both of you. Explore a fantasy, role play, lingere.. Change things up a bit! It worked for me and my boyface. Thinking about doing laundry in bed is no good! hehe
And exercises! It will help boost your testosterone levels.
Best of Luck!
2007-06-19 22:44:44 · answer #1 · answered by mytwocents 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What of yours is out of shape?
Wandering mind(where to,some other person/s???).
I will say you're having sex because you have nothing else to do,not because you really NEED(not WANT)one.
Animals have sex during the mating season ONLY.
Man matter of factly is more bitter than animals.
BE REAL. Take good care of yourself,darling.
OR, .........
Do you have any psychological dread???(for you said: a bit out of shape.)
NEVER GIVE UP IN THIS LIFE,but you gotta be sure you are on the right lane.
2007-06-19 22:38:10 · answer #2 · answered by JW van JW 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take u some horney goat weed about 30 min before. And actually ur physical health has alot to do with. I was overweight when i was younger, now Im in good shape and my sex life is better. My advice is to really work out ur legs, and doing cardio. More cardio u do, the harder u can go and longer. Plus, better cardio, means better blood flow thoughout ur body. U might also think about cutting back on redmeat and eating more salad. Cholesteral can hurt u also. When i went to a more veggie diet and ran alot more and stair climbed. It was about 2 months and I noticed my member got thicker. Now thats some modivation right there
2007-06-19 23:14:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, sorry but if your mind is wandering during sex then you are doing it with the wrong person
2007-06-19 23:59:51 · answer #4 · answered by pete m 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe it's the person That you are having sex with. your mind should never wander when having sex. you should try more 4 play and if that is not it, find you someone that keeps you up and going good luck o and it all else fells go see your doctor and he will give you the good stuff, (you know what i mean)
2007-06-19 23:18:41 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Bug 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're a bit out of shape (read a lot out of shape) and still getting laid, you should feel pretty fortunate. get out and exercise and quit being a disgusting bowl of human jello. i'd pt you until you puked and after you cleaned it up i'd pt you some more.
2007-06-20 00:36:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
being out of shape doesn't have much to do with it. but you're mind wondering will, I wonder how you're girlfriend feels about it, I mean how un good she is in bed, since you're mind wonders n all, but anyyyhoo
2007-06-19 22:54:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it does not have to do with your body type. Maybe you need to spice up the sex. Maybe do something thing you have never done before. Don't just do the normal routine. Change it UP FOOL!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-06-19 23:31:32 · answer #8 · answered by ftmmiracle88 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you might have ED. It can come with age and diabetes. You said you were slightly overweight. Go see your doc to make sure you are not diabetic.
2007-06-19 22:24:54 · answer #9 · answered by Belgariad 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
just focus!!!!!!!
2007-06-20 01:31:52 · answer #10 · answered by mohd tamrin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋