im not happy and dont believe i married my soul mate but starting over is hard, can this be done?
2007-06-19 15:13:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you have like 3 mos to finish school, go ahead.
If you have more than that, it's not fair of you to do this to your husband. If your only complaint it that you don't think you "married your soul mate", mabie leaving is jumping the gun.
If he hasn't done anything wrong, you can't lie to him for an extended period of time just because you want his financial contribution while you take classes. You know what that makes you, right?
Let him know you arn't happy. See if he wants to work on the marriage. See if you can reignite the spark.
If he's done with you, too, suck it up, move in with a friend or family member and post a bulletin with the student center looking for a roommate. It's your life. No one's going to live it for you.
Life is hard. It's supposed to be. Do what you have to do.
But don't be sneaky and underhanded about it.
2007-06-19 16:23:11 · answer #1 · answered by kate 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Need to talk to your hubby and let him know what's bothering you. You married him, because you thought he was your soul mate. Unless you really don't want to be with him any longer, get a plan ready and set goals. Work towards the goal, including the day you want to leave him, where you going to move to, basically get all the info you need to re-locate. However, I think you owe it to your husband to let him know, that you want to leave him.
2007-06-19 22:22:57 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why not?! As soon as all your papers are signed you are a free woman! I just did it about 7 months ago and it was the best move ever! Be strong and independant - you can do it easily! Good luck!
2007-06-19 22:17:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
i know it's hard. i've been wanting to leave for almost a year. but i think you just gotta power threw it. it might be tough at first. but it can be done. also if you are educated. you can set up job interviews out of state and just go.
2007-06-19 22:20:14 · answer #4 · answered by Maya's_Mama 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey.... that's what my wife did- NOW she wants to move BACK with me
2007-06-19 22:17:20 · answer #5 · answered by roastizard 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When you find out , let me know.
2007-06-19 22:17:56 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
save your money, then move
2007-06-19 22:16:40 · answer #7 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋