You have been very kind with us virgins, asking us why we decide to live a sexless life. Now I would like to give you a chance to explain your side: Why do you feel sex is such an essential part to a non-married relationship?
Of course, anybody else with feelings on the subject are more than welcome to answer as well.
2007-06-19 14:50:37 · 6 answers · asked by Chip 7 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Wow. I sure feel special now. I actually had a question posted just for me.
Believe it or not, your response to my virgin question caught my attention. I waited till I was 23 to have sex mainly 'cause I wasn't ready to deal with all the emotions have sex would bring. I didn't mean to wait so long though. Even when I was a child, I always wanted to have a very kinky sex life. But it's okay that I waited 23 years 'cause when I finally did lose my virginity I didn't feel guilt or anything negative because I was ready. I was able to enjoy the experience and continue to enjoy sex.
I don't believe in marriage, so waiting to have sex till I was married was never an option I considered. I was not raised in a religious household; sex is not talked about in my family though.
And sex is important. Very important. Without it people go insane. People who have healthy sexual lives are relatively sane. I am not as sane as I should be and that is because I waited too long to have sex and haven't had it for a few months now.
I dumped a guy I loved 'cause he wouldn't have sex with me. That is how important sex is to me.
Many people would say my values are all f*cked up, but we all have different values and points of view when it comes to these matters. I am sorta liberal and very open-minded when it comes to sex, and well, just life in general, and I understand that not everyone agrees with my POV, and that's fine.
2007-06-19 15:08:54 · answer #1 · answered by Bunny Boiler 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
It's different for everyone virgins and post virgin celibates have nothing to be ashamed of. The same is also true for people who are active sexually. As long as a person is responsible and safe it's their own business.
I have been celibate for quite a while now. It does not make me better than anyone else it is just the way I choose to live for now.
Some people choose to engage in more activity I don't see a problem with that.
2007-06-19 22:00:05 · answer #2 · answered by Pancho 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Good question and I look forward to reading the answer!
And in my opinion, virginity does not mean sex-less. You can explore your sensuality, your sense of touch and practice restraint while learning who you are and what is important to you before taking the physical leap with a partner- or a spouse. Bravo to those who choose to wait for marriage or to wait for the person who will receive the gift of their virginity with appropriate thankfulness and joy.
2007-06-19 21:59:29 · answer #3 · answered by dizzkat 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nicely done-I really admire the way you tried to get the other side on this. This non virgin (well, I had a baby so can't qualify) applauds you
2007-06-19 21:54:04 · answer #4 · answered by Kiss My Shaz 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I so agree with what Blanca*Nieves says.
Sex is extremely important in life.
and if poeple find asking sex related questions weird .... plz grow up.
2007-06-19 21:54:36 · answer #5 · answered by The Mastermind 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
it is how i got my six kids.
2007-06-19 21:53:51 · answer #6 · answered by RANDELL 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋