I was in love with a grl for long time but could,nt marry her and married to another girl who knew about my?

Question

love life in detail, i thought she loved me but after marraige it was a punishment to live with her as she was always taunting me of my previous love life which was very painful for me as i wanted to move ahead but she pulled me back into past.She behaved immaturely and created unneccesary problems for me i got disturbed and finally quited from army where i was a captain .She use to take some medicines of pshycatary which she never told me one day i found out her medicines ,once i asked her purpose of them ,she said sleeping pills which was a lie.She has strange type of fits in which she makes scary voices.I try to give her all the happiness i can but she doesnt even let me have sex . I,m having 3 kids but i find it difficult to live with her should i divorce her as it seems very difficult to live like a miserable person with no love as she says she hates me.

Answer 1

Let's see....you loved one woman, married someone else, and now you're not happy because you picked second best. Lesson learned????

I'd LOVE to know why you would quit good job because of HER irrational behavior. Maybe you should look at YOUR irrational behavior as well.

And WHY ON GOD'S GREEN EARTH did you have children with this psycho? (if she really is).

If she is really mentally ill, get her help. If she refuses, prove she's mentally unstable, get custody of the kids and get the hell out.

Answer 2

Let's get this right ... you knew from day one this was a huge mistake .. and yet you still had three children with her and swore to her you'd be there for better or for worse? And now you want to punish and hurt the children and get out, after all these years? Give me a break. The next time she throws it in your face, stop being a wimp and admit it, accept it, and give some honor to it, and trust me, she'll stop flaunting it, she'll pull back really quickly.

Answer 3

dude it sounds like you need to divorce the pshyco *****-and do it now while you can. There is no need to stay in a relationship when there is no love and specially when there is kids involved.