I always feel uncomfortable being naked with a new partner for the first time. I can't help but wonder how I "measure up" to previous men she's been with. I'd say I fall within the average category. What can I do to relax?
2007-06-19 11:55:11 · 10 answers · asked by curious 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Keep the lights on and let it all hang out. Laugh and have fun, joke around. Contrary to what you dudes believe, size REALLY doesn't matter! (and we like bald men, too).
2007-06-19 15:24:49 · answer #1 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh, yes, this is too easy!
WE are WAY more self-conscious than YOU are!!!
I guarantee that she is more worried about her perceived 'flaws' and what YOU are thinking about them.
Oh, now she is noticing you too...but we are so much easier on you guys than we think you will be on us. We see all the good stuff and not so much the "bad" stuff (unless it's really bizarre!!!).
You guys, on the other hand, are brainwashed by the media with what women are "expected" to look like (although, often not humanly possible!). We women do NOT have that same upbringing about you guys...(lucky you! ---- imagine Ken or GI Joe doll's groins being as disproportionately HUGE as Barbie's breasts! That's a tough way to grow up!)
Anyway, all I can say is...relax, don't worry, she's MORE worried, and "average" really is just fine for most woman! There are alot more important things that effect our attraction towards you guys!
Good luck, take care, relax, HAVE FUN!!!
2007-06-19 19:08:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. Wimmin are vastly less visually stimulated than men are. If she's getting naked with you, you are already winning near the gaol. Don't sweat the looks thing, just make sure you say the right things and keep the insecure-vibe away. This is all provided that you have a reasonably-sized penis. If yer a tiny tadger, there ain't nothing you can do but excercise the tongue.
2007-06-19 18:59:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Dude, calm down, the chick is probably thinking that too except like 10x worse because she is chick. And if you wait till you are in the moment to undress, let each other help getting nekkid. :)
2007-06-19 19:00:34 · answer #4 · answered by Never fear, for I is here....... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
[quote] We women do NOT have that same upbringing about you guys...(lucky you! ---- imagine Ken or GI Joe doll's groins being as disproportionately HUGE as Barbie's breasts! That's a tough way to grow up!) [/quote]
LMAO, that is a good point there.
2007-06-19 19:18:29 · answer #5 · answered by nuclearnads 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax... best way find out what she likes ASK her what gets her going and for her to SHOW you.....that way good sex will turn great................. and you get points for consideration, a sex show and also your mind taken off does my winky look small in this........
2007-06-19 19:00:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, do as i do, just think F*ck it!, if she liked me enough to go this far, perhaps, she will like "all" of me, and if she don't, well then move on.... do say things that "women" would say, ie: ich, my belly is too big, do you think "this" looks weird etc etc, just act as normal as possible, we all have flaws, and what we notice they may not...
2007-06-19 18:59:22 · answer #7 · answered by Lupita 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a drink, mellow out and breathe easy....beside you should just think what we women go through exposing our bodies.
2007-06-25 04:22:40 · answer #8 · answered by mizzbee1975 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait longer. If you wait until you reach a point of commitment, love and respect, then you will have no reservations whatsoever.
2007-06-19 18:58:46 · answer #9 · answered by DSL 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You can not worry about the others it's how you use is what counts.
2007-06-19 19:09:54 · answer #10 · answered by kim t 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋