i dont get this at all!!! if i'm not attracting the wrong men i'm attracting lesbiens!! at one point i was convinced that God was telling me that i was a lesbien cause i got so many numbers from women!!! i dont understand this?? i'm not masculine but i'm not that feminin either, let's say i'm 85% feminin but 15% masculin...is that bad??? confused and upset here!
2007-06-19 11:18:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
savvy it's always a rule that when ever you see a question mark, the sentence before it is considred a question.
2007-06-19 11:23:35 · update #1
Thanx T!!!!!
2007-06-19 11:24:15 · update #2
i'm not a homophobe, beleive me
2007-06-19 11:31:15 · update #3
who is to say what is right or wrong? Me personally, I wouldn't take a number from a chick if chicks weren't my cup of tea. Did you just come out of a relationship with a man? Cause in my past after a break up with a man, lesbians seem to flock to me, I figured it was because I was man bashing. Good luck.
2007-06-19 11:25:51 · answer #1 · answered by marna u 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'll start by telling you that I meet the first of your possibilities. I am the wrong kind of man. I know this because almost every woman that I've ever known has let me know this be moving on without much of an explanation. With that said I don't think that there is anything wrong with YOU. What I do think is that there is way too much pressure to BE WITH someone these days, both from society and, for us non-virgins, our own bodies. I've known something though for years and I hope that it starts paying off for me some day soon and that is that you & I need to relax, find something that we are good at that doesn't keep us locked away in our rooms and wait. It's kind of like fishing, to use a sports metaphor, you can't be moving your bate all through the water and expect the fish to find it much less be attracted to it. Find something that you enjoy that puts you out in the public, I've started playing strategy games at a local Barnes & Nobles bookstore once or twice a month and that's were the keepers are, they've got brains and their trying to fill them with good stuff.
2007-06-19 18:37:11 · answer #2 · answered by peppermint_shrek 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It happens to a lot of us. We attract bad men and lesbians. It's not a crisis. If you are not gay, then you need to raise your self-esteem so you attract the right men. Gently let the lesbians know you are straight. It's going to be okay!
2007-06-19 18:23:07 · answer #3 · answered by Delete 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
My best buddy likes girls (she's bi) ... I think she's got a crush on me ... but her real attraction to me is that I am her mentor (spiritual) so I think she's got a "Florence Nightengale" thing for me.
Remember, you have to give up your role models (mom, aunts, ect) to get yourself a healthy relationship. You have to be able to "invision" this before you get it.
2007-06-19 18:35:54 · answer #4 · answered by Giggly Giraffe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres no problem as far as I can see. You are hot, people fancy you. Thats all - take it as a compliment and don't break too many hearts!
2007-06-19 18:24:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
maybe you're suffering from a lil homophobia. dont be so hung up over it & maybe a one of those women might know the man ideal for you.
2007-06-19 18:26:21 · answer #6 · answered by Iron Hawk 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe it's just that men and women are attracted to you because you have a nice personality.
2007-06-19 18:25:04 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Charmed One♥ 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
ok, so whats your question?
2007-06-19 18:22:18 · answer #8 · answered by bumblebee 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋