Some, of u may read my previous '?' about my issues at work.THis cute female who is 17,and she knows that i like her.Well,when my boss put her in a position that i requested to and she only work there less time than i have and not really quick as me.Then,i was upset and mad at my boss about it.And i started to tell some of my co-workers about that problem saying that the reason my boss put her there is because she's a female.And she probably heard what i said,and i feel that she either feel guilty about it or she doesn't like me anymore.I even told her buddy about it when she asked me 'what's wrong?' I"m just hoping that girl that i liked forgive me for what i said.I know it wasn't her fault for being cute and appealing.When i saw her yesterday and she came and got her check i said hi to her softly and looked at her in the eyes. Then,she looked down and didn't say much.I feel she didn't want to look at me in the eyes maybe she heard the story,or maybe she felt embarass.
Thanks guys.
2007-06-19 07:28:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Just go up to her and tell her you were being immature and that you're sorry.
You have no idea why your boss put her in the position she is in and it isn't her fault. If you really like her then you will be mature and approach her in person and tell her that you were wrong and apologize. That's the only way she may ever like you back. You might have embarrassed her. If you did, then an apology will go a long way in getting her to talk to you again.
2007-06-19 07:45:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she likes the boss and that is how she got the promotion. If she doesn't look at you for what ever reason, best to let it go. If she wants to be with you she will let you know. Just be the best loyal friend you can be until that happens.
2007-06-27 12:07:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would imagine she knows that "Favorites" are being played. She is probably happy for the position she recieved, but feels a little bit guilty...like you said...about being chosen before you.
Keep smiling, and keep being kind. She'll come around. Very few people can resist kindness.
As far as the "Favorites" game goes, it's your boss who needs guidance, not you two.
2007-06-20 19:21:15 · answer #3 · answered by wisdom channeler 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be polite, she has nothing to do with your problem! The decision of your boss is not under your control, maybe they have the reason why they do such thing!Try to make her your new friend tby inviting her to a dinner or group date!And never mention anything about the job position!Treat your co-workers as your family for a more harmonious realationship inside the company! I know you have a good heart inside!Good luck!
2007-06-27 06:45:32 · answer #4 · answered by Brooke 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flowers. Something big, bright and cheerful. Beg her forgiveness. "I'm so sorry I said that. I was just trying to look good in front of the guys. It won't happen again. Truce?"
2007-06-26 19:09:26 · answer #5 · answered by TX Mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
explain what happened honestly and what led u to get mad about that new situation then appologise and congratulate her from ur heart giving her a little gift as a token from a colleague that likes her
2007-06-24 15:48:24 · answer #6 · answered by Egyptian Daffodil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Correct me if I'm wrong, but I t the feeling that you have a crush on this girl and that you're a horndog!! Yes or no??
2007-06-19 15:15:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her your feelings.
Say that you were mad because she got something that you really wanted.
Make it up to her.
2007-06-26 17:33:30 · answer #8 · answered by X-to-C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Admit you behaved badly and ask her to forgive you.
2007-06-19 14:37:22 · answer #9 · answered by Army mom 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋